im 15 and i have a 18 year old boyfriend weve been going out for 2 years now and now is when he wants to have sex. i dont want to loose my virginty like that but im not sure if i should have sex with him. should i?
2007-05-08 10:40:34 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't do it!!
1- it's illegal
2- if you don't feel good about it and don't want to then don't do it because you WILL just regret it later..it's not worth it...I"m sure you want it to be SPECIAL !!
3- you could get pregnant and I doubt you want that.
2007-05-08 10:49:56 · answer #1 · answered by lisvad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christ what kind of looser 18yr old male goes with a 15yr old female? There may be nothin wrong with you but you bf has got some problems. Big difference in life at 18 compared to 15. Sounds like there may be a maturity problem on his part. Dont give it up to him cause youll regret it. When your 18 I'd hope your more mature and responsible than to date a 15yr old. And isn't sex with him illegal until your 16?
2007-05-08 10:49:32 · answer #2 · answered by boxerslive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just answered your on question. You said "I don't want to loose my virginity like that." You 2 have been together for 2 years if he loves you then he will wait until you are ready. And if your not sure you're ready then don't do something you later on might regret.
2007-05-08 10:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by alley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh girl no!! stop right there please!! your virginity is only given to you one time, if he takes that away from you, you can NEVER get that back. your too young and you never know what can happen afterwards. he can leave you or even get you pregnant. this is not something you should do, please consider this advise. i am 18 and my boyfriend is 18 as well (im older by a couple of months) i have been dating him way shorter time than you but i've known him for 1 1/2 years. we have talked about it and well he told me that he had already slept with someone and if we do sleep together he doesn't want me to regret it cuz its going to be my first time. i told him that i wouldn't have regrets but that i was no where near ready to committ myself to something like that. but somehow i gave in. and trust me after that things change. not so bad but they change. don't get me wrong i love this guy, but in your case if he loves you like you love him, he should respect your decision, if he doens't then im sorry but this is not the guy for you. this is just showing you that he was only trying to get in your pants
2007-05-08 11:35:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. If your heart says no, then wait, my dear. If your heart is undecided, then wait.
~Dont go against what you feel is right. Always remember; You can never get your "first time" back. Be sure.
P.S
Please, if you decide yes, then make sure he wears a condom, and you use birth control or a female condom or some other birth control method. Be safe and baby free!
Follow your ♥
2007-05-08 10:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still would recommend of not having sex but if you do make sure you use condom because I dont think that you are ready to have children yet nothing personal just you are to young
2007-05-08 10:47:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not absolutely, 100%, without a doubt, stake-your-life-on-it SURE you're ready, then you're not ready.
If your boyfriend really cares about you, he'l respect that.
Just tell him you're not ready yet, and you will tell him, explicitly, when you are, so he shouldn't pester or pressure you about it again. Tell him that you care about him very much, but just aren't ready, and that you hope he'll understand and respect that.
Give yourself a few more years, don't hurry it... people always regret rushing it, but hardly ever regret having waited.
2007-05-08 11:01:45 · answer #7 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is illegal however, if it were me I would do it, but you should just do whatever you feel like, think about the concequences, and dont always think of it as a bad thing, think of the good things too, im not advising you should have sex, but if you feel like its time, then go for it.
2007-05-08 10:56:11 · answer #8 · answered by ten marines 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get pressured into doing something you don't want to. Be yourself. If you aren't emotionally ready, don't do it! If he doesn't like that, go find a better boyfriend that will wait until you are ready. And I know everyone else has said it, but it's illegal.
2007-05-08 10:53:47 · answer #9 · answered by hmmm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you will do it if he gets your Father's permission.
Then welsh on the deal if your Dad turns out to be a perv who'd let his underage daughter have sex with an older boy.
And there are two words you should mention to your stud boyfriend. They are STATUTORY RAPE. If y'all are caught having sex, chances are his next sexual encounter will be in a jail house shower, and he won't enjoy it.
2007-05-08 11:02:31 · answer #10 · answered by Doc Hudson 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its illegal and the older person will be punished plus there are so many risks you are taking. all protection has a failure rate and you could have emotional trauma too b/c you are so young and not ready. at your age love and sex dont mean the same thing. I dont recommend it
2007-05-08 10:51:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋