My BF always tries to pick me up and I always would tell him not to because I am embarrassed. I am not very comfortable with my body and I am afraid he will think wow she is heavy.. I am a worrier yes and I am very sensitive..... Just a while ago he grabbed me and picked me up (I let him that time) but then he put me down and he gave me a weird look... He said he was going to take a shower but I just feel so dumb like he thinks differently now. What do you think I should do to just not let this bother me? thanks From a very sensitive girl...
2007-05-08 10:06:12 · 5 answers · asked by Bubba 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is picking u up to be playful (my boyfriend finds it neccisarry to tickle me at the worst times) if u dont fight and wiggle or laugh then he doesnt enjoy it. just have fun. if he picks u up then find something to do to him back...i dunno give him a wedgy lol or not but whatever. and stop worring a confident (not cocky) girl is more attractive to men. and he got with u and is still with u that means he likes u the way u are. just remember if someone doesnt like u for u then screw them. they arent worth ur time
2007-05-08 10:15:39 · answer #1 · answered by DP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a very sensitive person also i can understand your embarrassment. But, You need to learn how to communicate with your bf effectively. you can start off by saying something like, "i know it might sound silly but after you picked me up you had this look on your face and I'm concerned about what it may have meant." He should also know that you're sensitive and if he blows up on you something is wrong with HIM not YOU. It's okay to have insecurities but don't let them run your life.
2007-05-08 17:17:34 · answer #2 · answered by mexirican_chula_2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he already picked you up once and still wants to pick you up, so what are you worried about? it sounds like he loves you just the way you are.
2007-05-08 17:17:28 · answer #3 · answered by L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl don't worry about your weigt. i mean big is beautiful. take it from a nother big girl. and if your man loves u anyway take it.don't push him away you'll regret it.
2007-05-08 17:38:14 · answer #4 · answered by Diondra` S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you think too much. Quit worring about it.
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Obviously he still loves you, because he is still your boyfriend. I don't think that he cares about your weigh at all, so why should you? Forget about it and think about happy stuff instead.
2007-05-08 17:19:40 · answer #5 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋