is it bad to be gay?????????????

Question

Bea cause my friend Ella is and wife Sue have a little girl,who everyone teases the little girl because she has two moms and i love my friends but i am not sure at all!!! help

Answer 1

Of course not. It is, however bad to be ignorant, bigoted and stupid, which is what the teasers are.

Support your friends, they need you.

Answer 2

No, it's not bad, just different. The human race has a problem with anyone being different. It's natural to tease someone for being different. But, it's not right.

Stand up for your friend! Having two moms has it's benefits, I'm sure! More moms to take you shopping, more moms to talk to and hug you, more moms to cook for you and tuck you into bed at night.

Having a 2-parent household, with 2 loving parents (no matter if they are female or male) is the important thing. Think of all the kids out there being raised by only 1 parent, or 2 parents who fight all the time and are abusive.

If her moms are nice, then that's all that matters!

It must be so hard for your friend. Try to support her and tell her it's ok, you don't care. As long as she has one friend, that could make all the difference in her life.

Answer 3

Here are the facts
1. Everyone has a right to there opinions, so long as they arent hurtful to someone else.
2. People are ignorant, and children pick up on the adults ignorance, this is why they tease.
3. Regardless on what anyone thinks about it being "bad" to be gay, and have children, your friends are and they do have a child.
4. It does not matter if your sure, as thier friend it is your duty to support them, and be there for them when they are sad and hurting because there child is hurting. If you cannot do this or you do not feel comfortable supporting them, then put distance between you and them, because its tough enough for them without a judgemental friend.

and in my opinion, I think that they are doing a brave and wonderful thing. To love a child and raise that child to be a good human is one of your greatest accomplishments in life no matter if your rich, or poor, a waitress, or a movie star. Or Gay or Strait.. Just my opinion.

Answer 4

No! As long as they are loving, caring parents that all that should matter. There are so many different types of families now, that we should not care about what someone looks like or who they choose to love (not that being gay is a choice). Kids are going to tease kids about anything they can find that they think is different or that they know bothers the other kid. it is our job as parents/adults to teach our children how to handle these people/situations.

Answer 5

no it not really bad thing to have a mom who has a lover or wilfe who is also a woman . look rosa Allen is also gay and she has a wife and they had adopted two young children from the children adoption serivces . so what wrong being gay or even lesb both females . well people out doesnt know much about those kinds gays ppl . everybody can be different but theyre still human's people just alike straights folks .

Answer 6

people are mean and people are gonna do what they want to...you can't make up the mind for your friends except to be friends with them or not...i used to babysit 2 small children for a woman who had them when she was still in high school and her parents forced her to marry the guy and he beat her really bad well she left him and now she is married to a woman and they are soooo happy together and her children loved her wife too they even call her dad lol i think that if more people understood it would be ok but they don't all you can do is be there for your friend and support her decisions

Answer 7

There's nothing wrong with a child to have two homosexual parents. Other kids will eventually grow up and get over it. As long as the child knows that her family loves and cares deeply about her, she'll be fine.