Okay on April 27th I was with a guy, and I am seriously in a lot of guilt and pain right now emotionally. We were fooling around, and although no sexual intercourse took place, I just have this crazy fear. Things were getting a little out of hand, and he kept fingering me. Although there was nothing like a "glob" of his liquid (seminal fluids) on his fingers, I am not sure if there was maybe a LITTLE. The thing is, he also never went fully "in"...perhaps 1 inch MAX (I am a virgin so it started hurting). We were rubbing up against each other a lot and I am worried maybe some of his seminal liquids got into me....
What are the odds I could be pregnant? My period is due on the 18th of May, PLEASE HELP ME. I realize I made a horrible mistake. I really do. Can someone just tell me if I should be worried? :( My cycle is about 30 days. The time I was with the guy was about 4-5 days away from my ovulation date (may 2nd). I dont know if that matters but please consider it :(
2007-05-08 07:59:53 · 10 answers · asked by PLEASE HELP 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
My breasts have been sore ever since, and my nipple even sorer. They are very tender and my breasts are quite swollen. Could I be pregnant? Why is this happening? My period is due in about 10 days....ugh Im really on the verge of tears right now. I dont know what to do :( Is this my mind playing tricks on me???
2007-05-08 08:02:47 · update #1
No offense but you need to relax, you are getting yourself extremely worked up for potentially nothing. You seem to know a lot about ovulation and how someone who is a virgin could potentially get pregnant. So you know that you can buy a pregnancy test in about 10 days and take the test - learn from your "horrible mistake" and give yourself a break, and don't be such a drama queen until something really serious calls for it!
2007-05-08 08:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by cjm 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok. Take a deep breath. There is a definite chance you could be pregnant. However, there is also a definite chance this is just a scare. A man does not have to be all the way in-- he doesn't even have to be in you at all-- for you to get pregnant. If you are both naked, and he has ejaculated an semen, that's enough to get a girl pregnant. This is why you should ALWAYS-- and please from now on, make sure you do-- have the guy put on a condom.
It sounds like at the time of this encounter, you would have been fertile. The thing is, sore breasts are as much a symptom of PMS as they are of pregnancy. On the first day that you miss a period (so, the day your period is due) you can take a pregnancy test. Hopefully by then you will have started your period.
To me, your emotional reaction makes it sound like maybe you are not quite ready to be having sex. The fact that this guy was willing to come even just a little bit inside you without wearing a condom tells me he is DEFINITELY not ready to be having sex. Please don't rush into it. Spare yourself these negative feelings and pregnancy scares, and wait til you're a little older. There's no need to hurry.
2007-05-08 15:13:22 · answer #2 · answered by writegirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The likelihood of getting pregnant from being fingered is very very very remote. There is so little chance I am prepared to put my reputation on the line and say it couldn't happen.
The outside world is very hostile to sperm so it doesn't last long in the open air. If it does it then has a marathon to accomplish to get to your tubes (through several obstacles like your cervix which can be hostile too). Most sperm lasts less than 24 hours although some can last up to a few days. Then it needs to find your freshly released egg (which only lasts for about 24 hours).It then has to penetrate the wall of the egg (not an easy task after its long and tiring journey!) Then the fertilised egg needs to start dividing and then successfully implant in your uterus. Even then, 1/2 of all pregnancies are never even noticed because they fail so early (fail to divide properly or implant) when conceived through normal intercourse. Therefore the chances of your encounter leading to a pregnancy, while possible, is remote. Very remote. Probably greater chance of winning the lottery.
I do wonder however, why you feel so guilty for what is basically a natural act. I am guessing you are pretty young. I would really suggest that you read up a little about what you are doing (or talk to someone for advice). You shouldn't feel guilty for being a sexual being but it is definitely worth planning appropriate birth control and thinking about staying safe and healthy.
2007-05-08 15:29:24 · answer #3 · answered by Rats 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mind could be just getting away on you.... Just from reading some of the signs and symptoms. Although this is a very fertile time, and you don't always have to have sex to get pregnant. If you are a virgin you shouldn't have to worry too much, and that is also why it might of hurt a little. Maybe some ruff play made your breast and nipples hurt. Hopefully this helps you out. You may just have to wait and see what happens. Generally you shouldn't get sign's of pregnancy until you are 4-6 weeks pregnant, but again some woman will have signs as soon as the fertilized egg attaches it's self to the wall.
2007-05-08 15:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by sam b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey relax!! Your breasts and nipples are probaly sore because you are about to start!! If nothing happens between the 18th& the 24th then I would get a pregnancy test but dont stress until then and in the mean time you should consider some birth control or stop trying to have sex if you are young!! Good luck!!
2007-05-08 15:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by stacey_moser2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think your pregnant but then you never know. I would suggest going and getting a pregnancy test. There are tests out there that can predict pregnancy awfully soon. Some you can take up to 14 days before your next period. I dont understand why you feel so guilty. Sex is a beautiful thing, and when you decide to do it, take precautions, but do enjoy. I hope I helped.
2007-05-08 15:23:54 · answer #6 · answered by michelle sutton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It kinda sounds like your feeling guilty about what happened? You need to relax and think realistically. I remember those days back in high school feeling so scared and thinking I was pregnant and never was. I'm not saying it doesn't happen but the odds are slim from what your saying. You're probably having PMS symptoms. In the future if your going to mess around use protection. good luck
2007-05-08 16:01:33 · answer #7 · answered by One Sexy Chic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, wow. Well, first of all, don't feel guilt or anything like that.
Second, call a pregnancy hot line, health clinic, public health clinic, or whatever you have in your area.
If there is a female relative or friend that you can talk to, confide in, and trust, do that.
Remember, don't worry about things you can not control; get the facts, then deal with it, hopefully with the help of friends or relatives.
Best to you.
2007-05-08 15:12:51 · answer #8 · answered by Nothingusefullearnedinschool 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me your fine. Just chill out. The chances of anything happening are slim to none. I mean when your pregant your **** and **** don't hurt for months. You haven't even missed your period yet. It's probally just cause you were being played with for the first time and your little tities are sore. Take it from a girl who has had more sex than most .
2007-05-08 15:22:36 · answer #9 · answered by Melinda B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make an appointment with planned parenthood asap. They can answer all your questions for you, and if your not pregnant, they can get you on birth control. I understand your scared, you just taught your self a lesson, and its a very scarey thing to think your pregnant. sperm can live for i think 2 days inside of you so, if you were close to ovulation...well... maybe... but i really doubt it. Dont panic, call and find out first. good luck
2007-05-08 15:17:35 · answer #10 · answered by melissaw77 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋