i just feel like disappearing?

Question

I feel like just packing up my stuff and moving to another country, changing my name etc. I just want to start a new life. Has anyone else felt this way? I feel like my life is moving nowhere but downhill, and no matter what i do things just get worse.

you ever hear the song "cant you see" by the Marshall tucker band? that is EXACTLy how i feel

Answer 1

Yes I have felt that way. And I have packed up and moved, but the problems are still there. You just have to keep your eyes on your goals and don't let the bad things get you down, because if you let them, it means you let them win. Id rather go down fighting than to quit. Hope that helps you because you helped me with my situation just by answering your question. Thank you.

Answer 2

i feel like that almost constantly these days but I tough it out and grin and bear it and try and deal with it best I can....

there is something else I have learned in packing up and moving repeatedly as I have done in the last 10 years or so

it is called the "geographic cure" which does not work....it means that no matter where you relocate to or what you call yourself these days untill you fix what the root problems is in your life you will continue to repeat the problem till it is fixed or at least dealt with

hope this answer helps you a little

Answer 3

Sometimes I feel like getting on a train, and going to as far away as it will take me,...I know how you feel...but then, I take inventory of my life, and think of what I have, and that things could be much worse....then I think of what I can do to change it,or if I should even change it...because it might just be what the Lord wants for me right now, for whatever reason He has chosen...Take a deep breath, count your blessings,...and dream of that getaway, but for just maybe a little while...God Bless

Answer 4

You sound quite depressed; have you spoken to anybody about these feelings?

I would strongly advise you to confide in someone you trust, and also to go and speak to your doctor. You really sound very low and it's clear you're feeling sad.

Your doctor can refer you for some counselling and if necessary, start you on a course of anti depressants.

Don't carry on feeling this way - seek help and when you're feeling more positive about everything, then that's the time to make any big decisions about moving etc.

Good luck.

Answer 5

sounds like you are in need of a change...how old are you? if you are in a positon to be able to do something like this, then i say do it. maybe not as extreme as changing your name, but going to see other things in the world or going in a different direction. you only live once, remember! so how do you want it to go? you get to choose! hope this helps!

Answer 6

I feel the same way right now, All I can sugest is couseling. Maybe someone can deal with life better than us.

Answer 7

i had always felt this way. i couldn't stand who i was so i wanted to change. you can change. go to this website. do exactly what it sais, it will work for everyone. www.ilovemeinc.com
keep reading it and doing what it sais. then you will have the change that you seek.

Answer 8

i have often wanted to disappear myself and still do.i feel like i'm a burden to my family. i know they can't understand what i'm going thru.i'm bi-polar it is not something i would wish on my worse enemy.but i know someway i have to find a way to deal with it not yet done.maybe a hobby would help if you don't have one already..

Answer 9

Many feel hopeless. It is a part of life. Humans feel stupid if they are not 'perfect' and every little mistake harms their self-esteem. It is true. Think about it.