Ladies: Think about this for a moment... Let's say you meet a guy across facebook after he 'pokes' you. You don't know him at all but seen him around campus smiling at you and you smiling back... but no conversation. no contact.
All of a sudden you add him as a friend on facebook but have no idea who he is. My question is...
why would you add someone if you don't know the person?
In other words... if you found him physically attractive would you add him as a friend?
If not... and you are just doing whatever you want to do .. then you just add him as a friend?
I know I'm reading into this too much but it would help to know what the hell is she thinking or better yet... what was I thinking?
I got a crush on this girl. So help out a poor man. Will ya?
2007-05-08 07:18:30 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't read too much into it, but at least she acknowledged you and didn't rebuff you! I'd say it's sort of a neutral response, she doesn't know you so can't make a judgment, but the fact she accepted you can only be a good thing. Try sending her a message saying hi and how is she? Just short and sweet....her response to that might give a few more clues than just the fact she accepted you
Good luck :) x
2007-05-08 07:26:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like this girl, then why not be a man about it and ask her out? If she says "no", then it is no big deal; at least you will have the answer that you were looking for.
BTW, the reason that you are so nervous about this girl is that you care too much about what she thinks of you. You don't know her, so is it logical to get so worked up over what she may or may not be thinking about you? Does it really matter? If she likes you, then fine, you're golden, but if she doesn't, so what? If she doesn't like you, then someone else will (probably someone better). Don't let the fear of the POSSIBILITY of rejection become so great that you never make a move.
Besides, if you are afraid of rejection, you will be nervous around her. If you are nervous around her, you will probably say or do something stupid that completely ruins your chances with her. If you don't care that much whether she likes you or not, then you will be more relaxed, and you will be more likely to succeed. Women find self-confidence to be attractive. If you are calm and indifferent, you will seem confident. Don't take rejection so seriously. The opinion of just ONE person means nothing (Even if that one person is really cute, she is still just ONE person).
2007-05-08 07:37:56 · answer #2 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this random guy made me a friend on Facebook...I accepted because I don't have a ton of friends on there and more is always nice. Maybe she figured if you were into "poking" her she would at least add you as a friend. Try sending her a message or something, or just talk to her if you see her. Talking is always the best way.
2007-05-08 07:22:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just talk to her. Stop trying to play game son the Internet. Some people add EVERYBODY as a friend on those types of sites, so don't read a lot into it.
Just start up a conversation with her, what harm is there in that?
2007-05-08 07:22:35 · answer #4 · answered by Clever_Cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best answer for your question is she wants to get to know you and feels that you want to know her too but m too shy to approach... So facebook, will give you a general knowledge about each other... For girls, its another body language of saying "hey, come over, i want to know you as a friend".... Do this first, and let's see what will happen from there.
2007-05-08 07:28:02 · answer #5 · answered by SushiGurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all though i dont have facebook but i do have myspace and i know what u mean i get friend request from some guys i dont know but i add them anyways just to make new friends
i think she may like u i mean she remebers the face and smiles u must be an unforgettable face
hope it works out for u
2007-05-08 07:25:06 · answer #6 · answered by Miss November 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's seen you around and doesn't ignore you and smiles back, then maybe she wants to get to know you. Adding you and talking to you via facebook might be easier for some people then actually talking. Or, at least it's an icebreaker.
2007-05-08 07:24:24 · answer #7 · answered by Meghan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She smiles at you....
Then she adds you...
Yeah there is something there...Just maybe she might want to get to know you better. Start a facebook conforsation.. Say Hi, i see you around school, whats up?
but just not that cheesy!
2007-05-08 07:24:04 · answer #8 · answered by hottiewatchout 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice I can give you from a long experience: never waste your time for thinking what the heck she wants. Think what you want and how to get it. Go to her and ask "Why have you added me as a friend? Do you know my name?" It is a good conversation starter, she gave you this opprotunity and it is up to you to bait.
2007-05-08 07:29:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seen you on campus and found u on facebook so she added u. Make the nex move n have a convo u never now what might happen nex.
2007-05-08 07:23:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋