out my problems but then come more problems round the corner so I'm restricited from doing anything!
2007-05-08 06:01:12 · 10 answers · asked by nachomanhulk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NEWSFLASH:
Committed relationships with girls = more problems
2007-05-08 06:03:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Everyone has problems, but if you concentrate on those instead of the good things in your life then you will never be happy.
If you have half a glass of beer the negative unhappy people will concentrate on the fact that it is not full and will think that they are unlucky. Happy people will think that they are lucky because they have half a glass of beer.
I once saw a documentary on TV. 2 men were interviewed.
One was English, lived in a 3 bed semi-detached house with his wife and children, worked 37.5 hours a week and had a reasonably good income. The other worked in Malaysia. He only got home to see his wife and children for 2 days a month. The rest of the time he worked 10 hours a day, and lived in a dormitory (bunk beds 3 high), and 18 people to a room. The presenter asked each of these men if they were happy. The English man said no, he was not happy with his lot. The Malaysian man said that he was very happy and very lucky because he had a job and was able to support his family
Change the way you think about luck and problems and you can be a very happy man. Just remember, there is a solution to every problem, and every bad time will pass. "Don't worry, be happy!!!"
2007-05-08 06:23:28 · answer #2 · answered by Copper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is just like that for everyone, (problems and then more problems). You have to work around your problems if you want to have any kind of life. I usually don't tell anyone my problems, I have a few friends I share with since I trust them, but I don't feel as if everyone needs to know everything about me. People, who all they do is talk about their problems are usually the type of people I try to avoid. It's not that I am not an empathetic person, it is worse than that, I am sympathetic to extremes. I get so involved in the problems of others that I try to help them so much that I hurt for them. If you ever want to have a girlfriend you had better start living despite the problems. You need to learn how to work through things and separate things in your life.
2007-05-10 10:39:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything is never gonna be perfect. You will always have problems if you let them stop you from living your life then some day you'll wake up and it will be too late. I say go for it and sooner or later your problems will either go away or you will find somebody to share them with. Someone to help you with them. Lots of luck.
2007-05-08 06:07:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's some free advice. Life is really just a series of problems and solutions. Whenever you solve some problems, more are going to come.
Don't center your life around 'the problems', just live your life or you're going to waste it.
2007-05-08 06:09:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A negative attitude creates a negative atmosphere - if you see yourself as a passive victim ("everything works against me," they "restrict me"), then you will just sit there and let problems wash over you instead of taking active steps to overcome or transcend those problems.
Tell yourself: "I'm imperfect, but that's okay; I'm continuing to develop myself and improve my life, and that includes taking active steps towards bringing romance into my life. I will not let problems turn into catastrophes; I will see them as bumps, not roadblocks."
2007-05-08 06:09:06 · answer #6 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, negative feelings generally breed negative situations, try not to feel so pesimistic and smile, relationships arnt everything... just focus on the good things you've got going for you, like the fact you're alive.
take pleasure in the simple things in life, we complicate life enough as it is.
2007-05-08 06:04:46 · answer #7 · answered by Soap Box Preacher 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it comes when your not looking for it if you try to hard we freak out it needs to be natural and taken slowly we like to be friends first and you need to sort out things together problems that come out should be talked about friends can last forever take it one day at a time good look babe she is out there xx
2007-05-08 06:13:01 · answer #8 · answered by jackie n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop doing stuff your parents dont like. or at least stop getting caught. you need to take notes when you get busted and never repeat the same mistake twice.
2007-05-08 06:05:10 · answer #9 · answered by Bobby L 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry so much about it and it might happen.
2007-05-08 06:04:10 · answer #10 · answered by ~sunflower 26~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋