I'm a 16 yr guy and this girl is 14.I found out that this girl liked me and so I asked her out to some valentines dance.from there we got hooked up and we've been together for about 3 months,but things hadn't been going so well.I've tried doing everything for her,but she doesn't show me any affection or doesn't even have a proper conversation with me.I talked to her about it and asked her if I was doing anything wrong or anything to discomfort her,but she said that I wasn't doing anything wrong,it was her fault.So I asked her why she wasn't talking to me,so she said that 'there is something inside her that makes her not want to have a serious relationship.'I am totally confused about this girl and I don't know if she's scared about having a 16 yr old bf or if she doesn't like me,I dont know I really need a bit of advice cause I don't want to break up,I like her too much.
2007-05-08 05:53:51 · 14 answers · asked by No.7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
communication is the number one key in any relationship. if she's not willing to open up in relationship, there's no point. you shouldn't be the only one doing the bending, it takes both of you to do. if she doesn't want a serious relationship then stay friends. i am not her, she has her own reasons and you should really ask her, just ask her. give it some time, if it doesn't work out, at least you learned from it. it took me like 6 years to learn..
2007-05-08 06:02:38 · answer #1 · answered by xlilazngrylx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think that you are the problem here. The girl is 14, she wouldn't know much about relationships or even have good conversational skills... What can you 2 have in common?? She is just a kid. I'm sorry but she is too young and immature for you, I know it's only 2 years, but 2 TEENAGE years is a hell of a maturity gap.
2007-05-08 05:59:26 · answer #2 · answered by B2B2008 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 16, and she is 14. You guys are young and she is scared about having a serious relationship. Just be friends with her, it will hurt at first, but enjoy the summer with your friends and go out to the movies and clubs, by the time you get back to school.. you will have a whole new set of classmates and a whole new set of girls to choose from. Everyone always looks their best on the first day of school, so you will see how "Beautiful they can be"
2007-05-08 05:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know all about this. i'm 16 and when i was 14, i was dating a 17 year old. if you have had sex, she feels dirty and uncomfortable.
if not, she still feels uncomfortable around you. its a girl thing. you sort of make her not feel, RIGHT. just give her time apart for about a week so she can feel better, only time can save that.
so dont sweat her, get off her ballllz. all she need is a little time.
2007-05-08 06:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her...
First of all, concentrate on school and your future. Dating and relationships won't make any sense to you until you're older and you know who you are and what you're all about. Second of all, if she can't carry on a conversation with you and if she doesn't really want a relationship you can't force it...let her go and get your head back into your schoolwork and your future!
2007-05-08 06:06:01 · answer #5 · answered by dvlbeneathwings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jeez, this girl's confuzing. okay, i think she's sending you mixed signals. some girls will play hard to get, even tho they are dating the person, they want you to try harder, cuz it makes them feel like they are worth all the work that you are putting into the relationship. or, she juss feels uncomfortable that you are 16, but i highly doubt that's the case, you should prolly sit her down and talk about it, tell her that if you cant make her happy, you dont know wut to do. tell her how much you care about her, if still nothing happens, then you shud prolly drop her, no matter how much it hurts.
2007-05-08 06:00:47 · answer #6 · answered by haleyknutson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-05-08 05:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by LA_MEXI_T21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
know the feeling lol, except im the 14 year old girl! my bf is 17 and idk its just a girl thing with older guys the girl feels weird cause we are afraid they are gonna force us to do something. i had to learn to trust my bf. i was raped in the past and it was hard to trust him untill he showed me that he wouldnt hurt me and me and him have been together for over a year now
2007-05-08 05:59:45 · answer #8 · answered by Angelique 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well shes 14 so she prolly doesnt know what to do. and your prolly her first bf. ask her if she knows and tell her that it doesnt bother you and help her out.. she may just need a push. or it may be her parents. so the best thing to do is just talk to her
2007-05-08 06:03:14 · answer #9 · answered by nicoley oley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wreck it off. you will not have the flexibility to have a legal nor long term courting along with her yet greater importatnly she lied to you. What else has she lied approximately. not elementary yet you may get right into a much bigger mess right here. Sorry approximately this.
2016-10-04 13:56:44 · answer #10 · answered by lieser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋