I have given it to her and she liked it so I am curious as to how it feels also. I am not gay. I have read a few things about it and have heard that it feels really good. How should I ask her?
2007-05-08 05:41:43 · 18 answers · asked by Deebo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be honest...tell her you are curious about it as well, and would she be willing to use a toy on you? (or whatever you had in mind).
Men have a lot of nerve endings in that area so anal sex is more stimulating to them, than it is to women. Nothing at all wrong with wanting to give it a try...
Enjoy!
2007-05-08 05:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are at the point in your relationship to use toys, then i say walk into a sex store and find some anal beads or a dildo and say something like, "hey, what do you think of this? we could use it on each other" and see what her reaction is. If she's put off by it, then...well, either tell her you were just joking, or say that you are serious and curious. Reassure her that you are not gay. Some men like that. i had an ex that didn't mind me going there. It was weird at first, but we were very adventurous. If you guys are too, it wouldn't hurt to give it a try.
good luck!
2007-05-08 05:50:00 · answer #2 · answered by bittersweet1435 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does feel good but it hurts like hell at first..most dont know that the anal walls lubricate themselves just like the vaginal walls...so once u get her comfortable and ready then go very very slow inch by inch and then sit for a min or so then go in some more once in do the do...but real slow once she strats to feel it then she will throw it back...now you may have to play with her there or have her do it her self or what i did was have my man finger me then eat it out..then i tried it and loved it...so welcome....
2007-05-08 05:52:20 · answer #3 · answered by latoya77077 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from the back!!! lol!! come on, that was funny!
oh snap! i just read the whole question.. you want it done to you.. okay there are these "anal beads" that just might just be the thing for you you can get them at any "adult toy store" probably online too.. there is also this cream that is called "anal eaze" its supposed to lessen the discomfort.
good luck..
2007-05-08 05:50:12 · answer #4 · answered by mommyof2preggowith3rd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her! if she feels comfortable ask her to go to your local sex shop and try anal beads. a lot of guys are leary to try it but actually when inserted properly they sit right on the male "g spot" and intensify your orgasm.
2007-05-08 05:49:12 · answer #5 · answered by JM 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women dig honesty. Just ask her flat out, plain and simple. Some women think it's great that you want to know why something gives them pleasure.
2007-05-08 05:48:28 · answer #6 · answered by nutt330 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to an adult store with her and while shopping hint about a but plug for yourself and see her reaction. Then go from there.
2007-05-08 05:49:40 · answer #7 · answered by str8talker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a brave guy! Just sit her down and talk to her I guess!
2007-05-08 05:48:10 · answer #8 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask you have nothing to lose, although if my man was to ask me i would think he was gay. good luck
2007-05-08 05:48:02 · answer #9 · answered by TE TE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she likes it in the AZZ
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2007-05-08 05:47:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋