when you sometimes see your guy checkin out another girls a$s. . like if you're sitting down and he looks at her butt. .
is it normal or would you say something?
2007-05-08 05:02:40 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is completely normal. It is rude that he doesn't try to hide doing it in front of you but still most guys do it.
2007-05-08 05:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by Eva C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because a guy is dating, doesn't mean he's blind...nothing wrong with admiring the view elsewhere...that's just normal for humans and especially men (males tend to be more visually stimulated than females).
Unless he's gazing long and hard, or making inappropriate comments, don't worry about it...do you NEVER notice other nice looking men?
2007-05-08 12:08:20 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If its just a quick glance, I don't say anything. But if he
just sat there and looked for more then a minute I would
probably say why don't you take a picture or go ask for
her number. But the guy I am with right now isn't like
that, yes he glances but he doesn't stare.
2007-05-08 12:10:02 · answer #3 · answered by chmar11 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It pisses me off, cuz he should be looking at me, but I suppose it's human nature to look, right? I usually end up making some comment about it and then get over it, or I'll do it back at him - check out some other guy right in front of him, so he knows what it feels like.
2007-05-08 12:11:23 · answer #4 · answered by melissa_53105 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its how guys are but then if you notice it say something like, omg look at her butt and he's gonna notice that you noticed him. and make a slight remark but if you're ok with it them let him look but not indulge. and then mention something about another part of her body so he understand that you as well recognize beauty because men are attracted to beautiful women...thats why he has you and you shouldnt get jealous because they might be pretty but its you that he wants and love.
2007-05-08 12:12:07 · answer #5 · answered by I'm beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's rude. I always make a comment to let him know I saw that. If he is unrepentent and continues....move on. He is a pig. No man with class checks out a girl blatantly when he is with another girl. If he wants to check out chicks, he can go to the mall by himself or with his boys. You deserve more respect. Nana
2007-05-08 12:09:47 · answer #6 · answered by nanawnuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal, everyone looks.
Girls are just more subtle about doing it.
The most I would do in such a situation is roll my eyes at the fact that he couldn't be discreet about it and I'd think him kind of sad that he had to be so obvious.
2007-05-10 21:48:53 · answer #7 · answered by Sarey Gamp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is completely normal. Just like it would be for you to check out guys. Heck I point out cute girls to my man. He can look all he wants but just can't touch
2007-05-08 12:07:58 · answer #8 · answered by glbenner 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I look at other people all the time. We joke with each other about it. Looking at attractive people is not cheating. We always go home together, that's what matters!
2007-05-08 12:23:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly normal. It doesn't mean he likes yours less. Look women do it too, we are just way more sneaky than men when we check out another bloke.
Don't blame men, they are beautifully simplistic creatures.
2007-05-08 12:07:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋