My girlfriend really has no time to see me because her college classes take up all day then she works all weekends in the month. Sometimes I get to see her may be for a 2-3 hours twice a week. When I want to do something with her I have to make plans with her in a week advance. Also she has not told that she loves me and I have been dating her for 5 months.
2007-05-08 02:32:30 · 16 answers · asked by avenger 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all....!!! 5 months is not enough for a person to tell you "I love you"come on it's too early give her a brake and second of all she's trying to better her self in life just try to be there for her ok! or you could be making the biggest mistake of your life by dumping her!!!
2007-05-08 02:40:19 · answer #1 · answered by cupcakes! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your girlfriend is a very busy girl! She can't help it if her classes and work take up a lot of her time, I'm sure that if she could, she would love to spend more time with you. What makes you think that things would be any different if you were with another girl, she may have a job and college to go to as well. Whether you feel as though she doesn't love you or things are upsetting you, at least talk to her about it. Don't take any rushed decisions, but sit her down in person, just the two of you, and tell her how you feel. See how things go, and after the talk you may have made your mind up about what you want. All the best.
2007-05-08 02:45:28 · answer #2 · answered by Mr X 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mate, are you seriously even thinking about a break up simply based on the amount of time you spend on each other.
Seriously, no offense, show some maturity. I think your girlfriend is showing more maturity in the way that she has her own life outside the relationship. Sticking together every day isn't the best thing. 2-3 hours twice a week is good anyway. If you had gotten a job too and go to college, you will be just occupied with your time like your girlfriend.
What I suggest is you get some activities outside the relationship. Go to college, find a job, play sports, go out with your mates.
If you want her to tell you she loves you, you got to tell her that you love her first. Not asking if you should break up with her or not. Obviously you don't love her enough.
2007-05-08 02:40:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't need to break-up with her, but you should be very understanding and patient with her studies. Unless you want a dump girl who probably cant even spell the word love...
And just because she hasn't said the 3 little words in the 5 months of you guys dating doesn't mean a darn thing. She probably isn't trying to rush the relationship, but just maybe she wants to make sure you are the one for her before she tells you she loves... Hell, you didn't even say you loved her either, so get over it
2007-05-08 02:42:09 · answer #4 · answered by plumprump26 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you have to respect that she is motivated and is getting an education. However, if you can't handle her busy schedule, then it might be time to find another girl. You sound like you need a girl who can be there for you when you need her. The girl you are w/ now is too busy for a relationship like that right now. You can either be patient, and wait for her schedule to lighten up a bit (she won't be in school forever), or you can break up w/ her and find another girl who can spend more time w/ you.
2007-05-08 02:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
give it some time, its only 5 months, i love you may have come before 5 months, but that was other people. If you don't think you can handle it then break up.
2007-05-08 02:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by Joshs Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't dump her. She's going to class to try and better herself and working weekends to pay the bills, etc. Just tell her you would like to spend more time together as you hardly see her. Be honest and open and then take it from there.
2007-05-08 02:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by Widgi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aaaaaah, well. . .if this kind of ghost relationship feels like going nowhere u should break up.
If instead u feel deep in ur heart that this girl means for u, she's giving joy to ur day and shows u affection even if se's busy, then give it some more chance. Is she caring or cold?
If I were u I couldnt do it bc i need constant care and love. . .and eye contact!!
2007-05-08 02:39:06 · answer #8 · answered by (: Ally :) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
five months? thats only like 80 hours of time with her...and you expect her to say "i love you" already?
Personally..i think this sounds like a PERFECT relationship. it leaves you time to be with your friends, and keep your life seperate, and keep your priorities straight, which is hard to do if you see eachother all the time....just stick it out. its almost summer, wont she have more time to spend with you then??
but if you are unhappy, then break up with her.
2007-05-08 02:40:42 · answer #9 · answered by <3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on...if she doesn't have the time...she doesn't have the time. Or you could ask her where she sees your relationship long turn...that shouold give you a pretty good idea as to if you can make it work. Sounds like you would like more progress and she doesn't have the time or the desire.
2007-05-08 02:38:17 · answer #10 · answered by marsha a 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋