Yes, u read the above correctly. I have a weird imagination. And when I say "otherwise perfect" it includes looks, sex, cooking, cleaning, shopping, working and anything else u can think of. Please be honest. Thanks.
2007-05-08 01:31:18 · 32 answers · asked by spark 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would marry a guy if he was perfect for me, but had one fault. It's just a job
2007-05-08 01:37:16 · answer #1 · answered by Taryn K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-17 03:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like how you mention that she's perfect for "sex, looks, cooking, cleaning, etc" and not once do you mention love.
Anyway my answer would definetly be a big, fat no way. I wouldn't be able to handle the jealousy or feelings that would no doubt come up when my significant other was with someone else (whether it was "work" related or not). Meaning that they are currently in the porn industry.
If they weren't in that field of work anymore it would be a completely different story: the past is in the past.
2007-05-08 01:38:24 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem here is NOT a woman being a porn star, but a guy wanting to marry a woman because of her "looks, sex, cooking, cleaning, shopping, working"... (...we need some love and understanding...)
How sad is that...
2007-05-08 03:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by LeeLoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is where good English usage becomes important:
If she "was" a porn star - past tense, but continuing action - no. The idea of marriage is commitment, and if she is continuing that line of work, no.
If she "had been" a porn star - past action completed in the past. In other words, no longer a porn star - yes. Everyone can change, and your past is over and done with.
(Of course, technically, the question should have been "If she were a porn star" since you're proposing a hypothetical situation - but my response would still stand.)
2007-05-08 01:37:11 · answer #5 · answered by Uncle John 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the marriage would have to be rock solid with no issues about jealousy. Some times it is better that both partners are in the business to prevent jealousy.
In short I think that the idea of marriage to a porn star is any mans dream but like all dreams they probably will wake up one morning and think what the hell am I doing.
One other thing to think about is, would you marry an abortionist and raise children with them?
2007-05-08 01:40:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess it depends on how open minded you are. If you have a problem with her having sex with other guys (which I would), you could ask her to only have sex with women (most pornstar women are Bisexual). She won't get paid as much, but she's not boinking other guys either. It also depends on whether or not you are a porn star. It wouldn't be fair to ask her to take a pay cut and stop having sex with other guys if you're having sex with other girls. So my answer would be: Yes; I'd marry her if I loved her.
2007-05-08 01:40:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to honestly ask yourself if it was the other way around, would you want your girlfriend to trust you in your relationship and what you do as a career?
Trust in a relationship is a very MAJOR issue with any couple, but if a job stands in the way of that trust, then you have to tell her how you feel about it.... But also put into factor was she straight up with you about her job that she does? Has she hidden things from you in the past?
Just trust in her that she is doing things at work is separate from what she does with you, and if you cant handle that, then that is your answer to your question and either move on or try to work it out with her.
2007-05-08 01:41:18 · answer #8 · answered by love_u24ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can date this "perfect" woman while being a porn star then why wouldn't you be able to marry her? If you love her and are willing to deal with sharing then you are a good man.
2007-05-08 01:36:00 · answer #9 · answered by kissbutnevertell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough one,but you would really have to question could you really satisfy him or her cause they do have a tremendous amount of sex with many different sizes lengths etc.But most porn stars do it for the money and they are numb to whom they do it with its just a job to them.Most consume alcohol,drugs,they take viagra etc.They do things for the camera not for the person they are withat that time.Also they must protect themselves at all times not all do you know.You have your backwoods co.and you have your more classy co. whom all are tested frequently.If its true love I dont see the problem atleast she has a job.
2007-05-08 01:45:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋