I lost my ex 7 months ago, shes wit sum1else but we r still in love i was very ill and it all got in a mess, i dont think i deserve 2 lose her over that, am i wrong???
2007-05-08 01:13:18 · 15 answers · asked by Paddy I 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, being ill is no reason to lose someone, thats when they should stand by you!
2007-05-08 01:16:46 · answer #1 · answered by sweeTie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one deserves to lose a loved one. No matter what the circumstances are.
The Man in me is telling you to move on with your life....she obviously did. I dont understand how someone can still love the other, but yet be with someone else.
And if your saying (if I'm reading it right) If she still loves you , she would have stayed with you through thick and thin. But instead, you guys broke up 7 months ago and she is with someone else. I'm not chosing sides but.....right now one of you has the best of both worlds. she has a boyfriend now and you (sorry to say it harshly) are a in the closet boyfriend. Just incase they dont work. If you love her fight (not literary) to get her love back. If she doesnt come back, at least you tried. If she does come back, and you accept her back....I would be cautious on me trusting her. Because what if an obstacle in your relationship happens again?
back to your question - No you are not wrong to "LOVE"
2007-05-08 08:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by Lilkryptonite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its hard to tell if you deserve to lose her or not because we dont know what that mess is, but if it was bad then maybe, everyone deserves a second chance, its all in what she thinks though, only how she feels can determin that
2007-05-08 08:18:26 · answer #3 · answered by cleanheart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The old saying goes if you love something set it free if it comes back it's yours if it does'nt it was never meant to be.
If you ttully loved her you will always love her. If you want her give her time and space. Get yourself together in the mean while.
2007-05-08 08:19:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use spell check please. âº
The situation has nothing to do with "deserve". People make their own choices and she made th choice to move on...it doesn't matter whether or not you think that's fair, because it changes nothing.
Sorry you were ill, but you'll have to move on...there are many other opportunities out there.
2007-05-08 08:17:35 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not wrong if u were ill she should of took care of you.
it depends on how bad the situation got though to. i took care of my boyfriend at the time and he was layed up in bed for 8 months and he was irritable from time to time with the meds that he was on but i stuck by him
2007-05-08 08:19:42 · answer #6 · answered by mary s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on who she feels. u dont desvere it but its for u to deside right now. the ball is in her court. im sorry but if shes with someone else do u really think she "loves" u? im not trying to be mean, but its true. ask her how she feels on the subject and then go from there.
2007-05-08 08:20:19 · answer #7 · answered by *Embionauge* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want her if she cant stand by you when your ill, and she goes to someone else instead. She cannot realy love you if shes with someone else, time to move on and be thankful shes gone from your life
2007-05-08 08:21:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure that's not the true reason. Be honest with yourself & with her. If it's true love you'll have no trouble convincing her to come back.
2007-05-08 08:21:01 · answer #9 · answered by Mishell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe that every one no matter what they did deserves a second chance to make things right...
2007-05-08 08:16:39 · answer #10 · answered by Sweets 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋