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I have few very close friends and I love them very much, but here is the problem. (I wont say names)

person A is very suicidal. she was very hurt in her life (family abused her, sexual violence). she was always suicidal, she is today and she will be suicidal tomorrow. since I met her, it was very rare that she was happy.

person A was in big troubles. I only heard about drugs and guns but she doesnt wants to tell what else happened. now some people wants to revenge and they want to hurt person A. if they dont hurt person A, then they will hurt her friend. and that friend is person B. and by hurt I mean they will kill.

believe me, they already tried once. in april person A sacrificed herself to save person B. she was raped and tortured.

so my friend person A wants to commit suicide to save our friend B.

she already sacrificed many times, but now she will save a life by commiting suicide.

we are all catholics.

so what Jesus, God and Bible says on this?

2007-05-08 00:34:06 · 7 answers · asked by mika 1 in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

police wont do a thing cause person A was in gang and think what people in gangs do!! do you understand what I wrote up there????

2007-05-08 01:01:30 · update #1

ONLY ONE PERSON UNDERSTANDS ME

she wants to commit suicide, otherwise they will kill our friend.

dont you get it?

2007-05-08 01:20:13 · update #2

7 answers

Jesus says in the Bible:
John 15:12 "This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. 13 Greater love has no one than this, that someone lays down his life for his friends. 14 You are my friends if you do what I command you."

However, are you sure there is no other way to save both person A and B? Can they be sent to another part of the country to get away from the gang for eample? I would urge you to pray for them and this situation, and i will also pray. God answers prayers.

2007-05-08 01:39:28 · answer #1 · answered by Beng T 4 · 0 0

Well think about how could this end up committing suicide? Do you think in actually says in those words in the Bible that its wrong or right? It don't really say anything about suicide, but either when you have thoughts of suicide or planing on committing suicide, that's the devil messing around with you. Satan can take our weaknesses and turn it against us. And not only that but he can deceive us in ways that it feels good to do. When Satan tells you that you are a hopeless, worthless, bad person, he is deceiving you. Satan's goal for you is destroying your life. So I see that your friend could be listening to Satan and committing suicide is not the best answer to life. There"s so much more to life than that.

2007-05-08 01:01:57 · answer #2 · answered by Lauren =) 3 · 0 0

When pain exceeds pain-coping resources, suicidal feelings are the result. Suicide is neither wrong nor right; it is not a defect of character; it is morally neutral. It is simply an imbalance of pain versus coping resources.

2007-05-08 00:38:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

One who knows life would never recommend suicide. Life continues bodies change birth after birth.

One can never get rid of pain by running away from it.

2007-05-08 00:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by dd 6 · 0 0

According to the Catholic point of view, I think she will be judged in Purgatory. Perhaps she will be pardoned and sent to heaven, perhaps she will be found wanting. Who knows except God?
That is a heart-rending story, if I were Christian (not being sarcastic) I'd pray for her to be pardoned.

2007-05-08 00:43:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

Jesus says," love one another. There is no greater love than the one who gives his live for another."

2007-05-08 00:51:12 · answer #6 · answered by lam_9 3 · 1 0

bloody hell dude haven`t you ever heard about damn police?suicide is giving up, accepting defeat...there`s still hope, there always is

2007-05-08 00:38:38 · answer #7 · answered by Sir Alex 6 · 0 0

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