there is this guy that I have feelings for (nearly 2 years!!) we were originally work friends and there was something between us but it never developed any further.We don't see each other much at the moment because he has gone interstate for a few months, we have been keeping in contact through email and I was missing him like crazy but then he came back and did a few days work and when I was around him I found myself thinking i could live without him, the attraction lessened and I didn't feel like talking to him. I think he was a bit confused...now he is gone again and I haven't heard from him and I am going crazy, I can't stop thinking about him! and I feel sick wondering who he is with and what he is doing.Am I completely insane?? I am so desperate to email him because I want contact but I don't want to look too desperate or crazy. I was so angry that he was leaving and I have missed having him around and then when he comes back i treat him like i don't care. why?? I need insight!
2007-05-08 00:15:01 · 7 answers · asked by aricrystal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not really sure why, but i know if it was meant to be you wouldnt act like that. You need to move on and find other people who you get along way better with because there are loads of them out there and this guy will seem nothing compared to them
goodluck
x
2007-05-10 12:02:45 · answer #1 · answered by sparkles_x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate to this very much, because I am going through the same situation. I am thinking that they have great personalities and we are attracted to that, but maybe not as much as we think. We want to like this guy because there is no reason not to, but some kind of connection is just missing? That is the only conclusion I have come to so far! Its really hard because you don't want to get hurt and you don't want to hurt him either! Good luck!
2007-05-08 07:59:58 · answer #2 · answered by vivian2525 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated this man and moved back to be with him. We brokeup and he came to visit a few months ago and I realized that it was pure sexual. Time to move on. You are not going crazy and love is just confusing.
2007-05-08 09:21:11 · answer #3 · answered by dansgagirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, You"ve got it ! This crazy little thing called love ! Good Luck !
2007-05-08 07:30:31 · answer #4 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just like that saying sweetie- YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU'VE GOT UNTIL IT'S GONE. think about that the next time you are around him & it might make you want him & appreciate him more while he is there.
2007-05-08 07:32:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Absence makes the heart grow fonder"
When he's gone, you idealize him.
When he's back, the reality just doesn't measure up.
You're normal.
(Finding another boyfriend would keep you occupied when he disapears again)
2007-05-08 07:28:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its a bitc.h being a girl now ain't it?? Guys don't get this problem of should i make the first move or not.....E-mail him!
2007-05-08 07:30:08 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋