I went with that guy out on Friday's night!And it was great!We had a brilliant time and we also got drunk!But not so much.On the way to second pub,we held eachother's hands and than we danced together(we touched eachother a little) and had a great fun...anyway,we went out again yesterday in the evening...he didn'y try kiss me(what a pity!That's what I wanted coz I feel I fell in love with him).When he drove me home,I kissed him but it wasn't so great.He didn't do anything.He just had a nice smile on his face..Could he be surprised?I felt ashamed and wrote him message later saying "Sorry for what I've done.Don't want to destroy our friendship"...and he answered "That kiss was really sweet.Don't be sorry"...what shall I think about it now???Did he say it coz he didn't want to make me sad or what?I'm too confused!I really like him....anyway,sorry for my english!
2007-05-08 00:07:56 · 16 answers · asked by **Diana** 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well..maybe it wasn't right to say I fell in love with him...I just have feelings for him.Before we went out on Friday's night,we talked on Monday and he called me "lovely princess" in messages later...
2007-05-08 00:24:56 · update #1
and on that Monday,we met face to face.Not on the internet...
2007-05-08 00:25:48 · update #2
My advice would be to just ask him how he feels about it all. I think it's fantastic that you made the first move - now keep going with it girl! Life's too short to play games. He sounds like a decent guy and he must already figure that you like him 'cos you kissed him so what have you got to lose? Don't get confused and down about it - talk to him :)
2007-05-08 00:16:20 · answer #1 · answered by Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok - u feel a little stupid for kissing him. I would too. But i think he was genuinly shocked. Maybe he did not expect that from you.
U should believe what he said in his text. If he didnt like u why would he say something to not make u sad??? It doesnt make sense.
You might feel a bit weird when u next see him (u will be seeing him again) - but at least he knows how u feel - and hopefully next time he will be prepared.
Get over it girl. It will be alrite.
Take Care x
Lady EJ
2007-05-08 07:16:09 · answer #2 · answered by BlueMorpho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First make sure he's not gay. Or it's possible that he likes you too but wanted to take things slowly.
See, if he got hard after that kiss and couldn't wait to ravish you, you'd probably think 'aw, he only wants sex, what a pig etc'. Or maybe he just considers you as a friend, it takes a few more going-out's to find out
2007-05-08 07:19:51 · answer #3 · answered by einsamkeit666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My personal thoughts are that you dont know him well enough to think that you are in love with him. You have been on just 2 dates.
Take a step back and try to keep your emotions in check otherwise there could be problems.
But on the flip side to that, enjoy your new relationship. The first couple of months are always the most exciting.
:-)
2007-05-08 07:14:54 · answer #4 · answered by Rich T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He likes you but he does not want to move too quickly as he wants a good girl on a long term prospect so dont worry just relax and enjoy whatever, dont be in a hurry its always better for the waiting.
2007-05-08 07:16:12 · answer #5 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all men go from 0-60 in 4 seconds.
Gie him some time.
2007-05-08 07:13:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked him if he's interested? It would be a good first step. If you think that would be too forward in this day and age I'll be surprised. Guys do actually like forthright women you know.
2007-05-08 07:14:46 · answer #7 · answered by Volksmecha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u knoe itz the startin of a perfect love story , but u need to finish it...so as i read above ...that he wasn't really involved with u...this might be coz he might be afraid whether u like him or r u jus friend's....happens but wat u gotta do is attract him....but love him.....i am sry sayin that u want sex more than him..........((u might be swearing at me..itzz kk)lol) So wat u do is ask him out for a diiner and there u ask him""whether he loves u or not...and talk very emotionally with love and affection coming out in form of words....wish u luck...bub bye
2007-05-08 07:18:10 · answer #8 · answered by RaJa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always like that in a club, you go alone and meet someone who came alone... so you see! he is looking forward to meet someboby and finally he met YOU!
2007-05-08 07:16:15 · answer #9 · answered by yurrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men want girls they date to be "easy"...It's true that a lot want knickers off as soon as possible but not all..Maybe he thinks a lot of you and wants to take things slowly so just enjoy it...
2007-05-08 07:16:53 · answer #10 · answered by trish b 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋