Sex Help 16 (im a guy)?

Question

Hi so i need some sex advice im not sure how to word it exactly but ill try

Basicly i know that me and my girlfriend are becoming more and more sexual almost everytime i see her and i know it wont be to long befor we have sex i was just wondering what are some signs i should look for coming from her that she wants to have sex like maybe shell keep biting her lower lip or something just as a werid example anyways help if you can


Thanx,
Ben


Here is a picture of us ^^

http://img300.imageshack.us/img300/9936/thefirstkisslf4.png

See alot of people are like no wait your to young...but if you are turly in love why should you wait?


Friday i drove 14 hours to see her, she is in Evertt washington, and im in San fransico Cali.

I drive up to see her 2 a month

Im pretty sure im going to be spending the rest of my life with her, 2 days ago i gave her a promise ring ^^

Anyways i just want advice on body language

And as to what somone had said...yes she is beautiful 8)

I drive up to see her twice a month**

and ill also throw in this detail

I think it was yesterday morning we were laying in bed and i was holding her hand and "feeling her" i then ran my hand down her pants and she started giggling and like saying "nooooo nonononono" so it was like yes or no lol cause she seemed to like it but was saying no lol just a little extra detail there for ya 8)

Answer 1

Your question is are there signs should look for that describes if she wants to have sex. While biting her upper lip as you put it.... might mean you're standing on her foot. I think she's already told you.... you said every time you go there it gets more sexual. You need to be a little more to the point..... talk to her on the phone and say if I drive 14 hours what are we going to do? Wait until you get the right answer.

As someone put it remember the condom. Good idea. Someone else says I don't know whether to laugh or cry this is a tragedy..... what the H are they talking about. Someone doesn't have a boyfriend that will drive 14 miles for them...

Keep doing what you're doing.... but be careful almost 14 hour trips.... long ways to keep your eyes awake.

Nice picture... noticed its first kiss number 4.... did you miss on the first three?

AdviceMan

Answer 2

I think the best advice I can give is use protection. There are no real signs to show she wants sex with you but there is one word that will give you a sure sign of what she wants.

That word is "NO", and if you hear it stop, or you will never get the chance to be with her.

Apart from that, have fun and dont take things too seriously as it is the most natural thing in the world.

Answer 3

Dude, bottom line is talk to her. If she's heading towards sex too, use a condom.

The one previous poster was right when he said that sex ruins a teenage relationship. I've been there too. No one will be able to talk you out of it if it's what you've decided to do. Just don't rush it and take the safe road if you go through with it.

Answer 4

Only choose one of them. Choose the person who you feel most comfortable around and you feel like they really love you. As for the girl who wants casual sex, if you want to learn to stop not being resistant to sex, don't pick her. But if that doesn't matter to you just make sure she really loves you and is not a whore. Good luck! :D

Answer 5

well always use safe sex first. If yall are layin together and she gets close and it feels like shes teasing you or bieng flirty then just start slow. Give her a message, tickle her back, then her legs, inner thigh, then move in slowly. Youll know if she wants it or not when you get close to the area. Turn the lights out cuddle up and watch a movie. Then try this. Maybe kiss her slowly and softly on the back of her neck and behind her ears. DO NOT SLOBBER OR LEAVE WET KISSES PLEASE. Such a turn off. If you get close to "downtown" shell either close her legs and roll over (act like she dont want ya rubbin her anymore or get up) or shell move closer, kiss ya back, open up and make it easily accesable. Youll know if she wants it. Dont push it either.

Answer 6

Ok so first things first when it comes to sex. IT RUINS RELATIONSHIPS AT THAT YOUNG OF AN AGE. Second if you dont listen to that then listen to this. I was 15 the first time i wore a condom it worked out but the relationship became strained.; Then one day we didnt have a condom and figured it wouldnt hurt this one time. Im 20 years old and i have a daughter who is almost 5 Be smart and dont ruch that ****

Answer 7

I think the biggest sign is that she will ask you... just don't get too caught up in the moment and forget something important like protection...

The local sexual health clinic has lots of helpful information - as well as free condoms (and pill sales) - let your fingers do the walking ;);)

Answer 8

First off, use some punctuation. You are a disgrace to the English language. Secondly, you're 16, which means you should have gotten to third base by now. If you haven't, I would be more concerned with trying to get that far and not worry about sex.
I can't open the picture because I'm at work. Is she hot?

Answer 9

Instead of looking for any signs on when she ' might ' be ready it is just easier and quicker if you ask her. She will either say yes or ask you to wait a little longer. If you love her what do you have to lose.

Answer 10

Agreed. Men believe they cannot control it, but as a perfectly able and vigorous 19 Yr Old, I know it is possible, so simply put, don't do it.

Honestly, if you DON'T know when she's ready, there is no reason you should believe you are.