We've met for 6 months now. We are really happy when we are together and he seems to be so into me. Because he talks about marrying me and having kids. But he never says that he loves me. Is it because he doesn't love me or not sure of his feelings or he is afraid to tell as I never say I love him as well even though I love him a lot. What shall I do? Shall I ask him if he loves me? Besides he sees me once in 2 weeks because he is very busy and but sms and call me almost everyday. I don't know what is going on. Shall I tell him to stop seeing him unless he treats me better?
2007-05-07 22:03:41 · 6 answers · asked by june_girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some guys just find it hard to say that dreaded "L(ove)" word - it doesn't mean that he is uncaring. Some relationships grow over time, and other times you just know that you love this person.
I think that the two of you need to sit down and talk about how things are going - when he starts talking about marriage and kids, then casually ask him "then do you love me?" Once he admits this (probably by saying "of course I do...", then getting him to actually say the three words you want to hear (including that "L" one...) will be that much easier.
Just don't cut him off altogether - harsh actions only get harsh responses...
2007-05-07 22:14:57 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for one thing, I just don't understand why people think you have to say "I love you" every time somebody farts. You should be glad he doesn't so easily say it! Let him say it when he actually means it! He obviously doesn't mean it since he only sees you once every 2 weeks. That ain't love. Sorry...............
One more little insight--a man will not hesitate talking about marrying and having kids, if it means he's going to get some p***y. Sorry to be so blunt, but that's just the truth.
2007-05-08 05:17:57 · answer #2 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it this way... saying those words when you don't really mean them in your heart can be disastrous. It takes time, for some people like me for instance take such matter seriously. I want to mean it and be all ready for it when i finally want to say it to the right one. Action speaks more louder than words. When he finally say it to you, you can feel it and see through his heart that he means it. Cool it.... :)
2007-05-08 05:14:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the wonderful world of men. Nothing scares us more than those three words. Marriage isnt bad its any easy thought to see ourselves married TEN to FIFTEEN years from now. I love you means NOW and thats whats scary
2007-05-08 05:08:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say "I never say I love him" - well he probably is waiting for you to. Go for it.
2007-05-08 05:31:19 · answer #5 · answered by pwwatson8888 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's married! Duh.
2007-05-08 05:08:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋