i want to end it. I want my feelings gone.. What can i do?
2007-05-07 21:45:26 · 16 answers · asked by pierre! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't MAKE yourself fall out of love with someone. When you are finally fed up with it all, trust me you'll get the guts to call it all off but right now your heart is'nt into leaving her so your going to stay. If you absolutely need to end it then by all means end it but if you really really can stick it out & make it work with her, then put those feelings aside & try to work through them. sounds like you really love her=)
2007-05-07 21:48:46 · answer #1 · answered by Aznb 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Oh man have I been there. Here some info. If you really are in love with someone....you are always gonna have emotions for her...always...forever.
It's like being an alcoholic (not that I am), stay away, do other things with other people and forget. Don't ever return. That's the only way.
I got 2 year experience in this, I know what I'm talking about.
Later on you might get ideas that, hey she was not so bad maybe we could try again....that's just it...don't even think about it. If you feel she is bad for you...then she always will be. Keep clear of her.
2007-05-07 21:51:47 · answer #2 · answered by Renegade 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have what's called Scarcity Mindset. Men who have few options with women have what is called a Scarcity Mindset. This limited mindset causes men to hold false beliefs and inhibit bad behavior toward the women they choose. A man who feels he has limited choices will easily obsess and/or attach himself to the few women he meets.
Society pours the idea down your throat that there is only one person out there for you. They call them “the one”, “soul mates”, “twin flame”, or any other ridiculous name. These things are about as real as Santa Claus, Tooth Fairies, and Leprechauns, yet so many people like to fantasize that they are real.
The truth is there is not one person you are meant for. Holding this belief only holds you back from seeing the truth and having real options in your dating life. Sure some women are more “compatible” for you than others, but with over 3 billion women on this planet to choose from if you’re still thinking there’s only one for you, you are only limiting yourself.
Thinking that you can’t feel the same way about any other person is a false belief. That’s great that you were able to establish a strong bond with one woman but to think you can’t feel that same way about another woman is completely false. This type of mentality keeps people from moving on after relationships. It keeps them from getting out of bad relationships they should have never been in in the first place!
Once you learn to see abundance in the women you have to choose from it will open up a whole new world of opportunity for your dating life. You will never come from a “take what you can get” mind frame. You will see a ton of choice and will allow yourself to become choosy. Hope this helps...
2007-05-07 22:03:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
think of all the shitty things shes done to you to make you WANT to fall out of love with her.
if you think she is irreplacable, youre right every life is valuable and unique. but so are you. value yourself think about why YOU are special. i think that will help you to walk away from this.
2007-05-07 21:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by nonphysical 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Might be irreplaceable but transferable. Transfer it to someone deserving.
2007-05-07 21:48:25 · answer #5 · answered by exo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Find something else to think about. What are your hobbies? Is there something you'd like to learn more about, like cooking, photography etc? Take a class. Adopt a homeless dog and take him for lots of walks. Get more exercise. There are lots of things you can do to distract yourself, and before you know it, you'll meet someone new
2007-05-07 21:55:52 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You don't have to replace her. Just love her less so you can start loving someone new more. And oh, love yourself much more. Go out, meet more people. Love better.
2007-05-07 21:51:30 · answer #7 · answered by Dereck 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just pray to the lord ask him for help, go to church or wherever u pray, look for somthing like service to do,help poor people or old people or orphans,look for a way to use the power of love u have to make something useful there are lot`s of people outthere who needs ur love,trust me it will help...and who knows u might meet the love of ur life then,believe me true love will give u fresh and new start, but don`t look for it ,let it come ur way, u don`t wanna heal urself and hurt someone else.
Good luck and God Bless
2007-05-07 22:23:52 · answer #8 · answered by Gery 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Dude, Think about it, there is you and then there is 3.5 BILLION Women. She is just 1 woman there are 3,499,999,999 women left. It's like a sea of women out there, my god, get over her already. you don't have time to be worried about one woman.
2007-05-07 21:50:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Find someone else. Easiest way to get over someone, is to find someone else.
2007-05-07 21:49:01 · answer #10 · answered by Chrissy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋