Did he cheat?
my boyfriend is married but there not together and hsi daughter who is very smart and shes 5 told me that he kissed his wife i asked him he said on the forehead..then i found a note from her saying for him to send his girl home which is me so his wife which is her can come over and teach him new things ....well i guess he let his wife stay here which i dont like because i wasent here and his daughter say they slept in his bed together why she had to sleep on the couch his wife is a B@#!% and has been trying to break us up ever since shes found out weve been together and she came over to pick up her daughter and was talking to me and stuff and shes like yeah when i stayed the night we tryed to get back together and yeah we slept together,i asked him about it when i found the note he said no why would i cheat when i have you yes im thiner than his wife and kinda more pretty and im scared that he did cheat and my heart hurts because i odnt know whos lieing and i cant tell him that his wife said they cheated because he will get mad if he knows i talked to her.....but if he did i dont know i just wanna know?oh and she left the day i came over and the sheets were off the bed ....but help please how will i ever know i mean all the signs are there
2007-05-07 21:20:07 · 7 answers · asked by sammy sam 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It looks bad - there is no nice way of saying it other than that.
It IS possible that nothing happened, and that his ex is just an evil homewrecker...
She might not even want him back - sometimes knowing that your ex is miserable (and that YOU have that power over them) gives people great pleasure. People like that have NO joy left in their lives, so they want the rest of the world to feel as empty as they do.
Is your boyfriend still married to this woman? I would be worried if he still hasn't broken it off - THAT would be the best way he could prove that:
a) he loves YOU (and only you), and...
b) that nothing actually happened (or will happen)
2007-05-07 21:37:34 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry darling, but the cheater is YOU, not his wife. And the lies will NEVER stop as that will always be his nature. If he has lied to her about YOU, he will lie to YOU about HER.
This is a sick situation - one that can only break your heart. There are plenty of available single men out there. Go find one for yourself and leave him to his wife as i promise he will wind up with her in the end anyway.
2007-05-08 04:27:45 · answer #2 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are all a little confused here - maybe get together (the whole lot of u)and then and try and make sense.......
if the oil light in your car comes on you will not stick a plaster over it!!!!!take it to the mechanics to get fixed........
2007-05-08 04:30:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple solution, wait till he is divorced.
Yeah he cheated, but not ON you, he cheated WITH you.
2007-05-08 04:28:24 · answer #4 · answered by Justin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two reasons: Your grammar is awful and what the hell are you doing with a married man?
2007-05-08 04:28:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, STOP grilling the young child. that is bogus.
talk to him and her if necessary. seems like you know the answer to the question, but you won't except it. if you're afraid to talk to him about it, you're in the wrong relationship.
time to move on!!!!
2007-05-08 04:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by tangomikeone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetie, I think you already know :(
2007-05-08 04:27:56 · answer #7 · answered by NoSurrender 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋