would you break up with your bf/gf if you sensed that that person would potentially harm you physically? sometimes my bf scares me
2007-05-07 21:12:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when he gets really upset, he screams profanities and hits things around him (i.e. wall, furniture). also, he sometimes gets this look in his eyes like he wants to slap me.
have i been verbally abused? he has called me names and said other horrible things, but i think it was b/c he was pissed off
2007-05-07 21:22:28 · update #1
RUN - Do Not walk away from this relationship. Your safety is the paramount consideration.
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2007-05-07 21:17:17 · answer #1 · answered by fitzovich 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing hanging around with someone who scares you? And please, don't say that you love him! That's the most blindsided excuse there is. He doesn't love you; he's too far out on the edge about to fall over and ready to take you along. Of course you need to break up with him because it's just a matter of time before he snaps and breaks you into pieces. If you are sensing fear then it's for a good reason. That is, this guy is dangerous and you need to get away from him and keep him away. He's a psycho nut job and nothing to be fooling around with. So now you've been warned and you know what you have to do before it's too late.
2007-05-07 22:35:37 · answer #2 · answered by quantumview 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would break up. Be sure that you are safe doing it though. Contact your local domestic violence hotline for tips on getting away safely. Don't feel like you can't call because he hasn't hurt you yet. Your life is too valuable to play "well maybe it'll never happen". A breakup brings out the worst in a person and if he is potentially abusive things could get very ugly.
2007-05-07 21:18:40 · answer #3 · answered by Kuji 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A womans intuition is the best predicor of future abuse. Read the book, "Why Does He do That?" By Lundy Bancroft. Also they ALWAYS start with verbal abuse to break a girl down, eventuall they will lose control and hit her. Violence escalates. And remember, "You cannot control him, You can only control yourself."
2007-05-07 21:17:41 · answer #4 · answered by juniper555 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hahaha that's a good one - though I've heard it before, the father didn't ask the boy to ask the brother whether he'd sleep with Brad Pitt - the congressman was a nice touch.
2016-05-18 00:40:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave skid marks getting the hell out of there! Any man that raises the flag of violence is not good for you. Get out while you can see your way out Anna Mae!
2007-05-07 21:17:51 · answer #6 · answered by Fameis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you shouldnt stay with someone because they frighten you.
If you honestly think he will hurt you, bring something with you to protect yourself.
Something like...pepper spray or mace.
You could also decide to meet in a public place.
(edited to insert link) you should watch that video, it might help.
2007-05-07 21:19:46 · answer #7 · answered by sarah.darling920 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If you are scared then it's with good reason. Get out before you get hurt.
2007-05-07 21:16:43 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, but only if ur gut feeling is really strong! Cos ur most important in the end and so is ur safety!
2007-05-07 21:17:06 · answer #9 · answered by Kittykaren 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel and that you're really uncomfortable around him at times because of your feelings... he's the one you need to talk to!
2007-05-07 21:19:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋