i admit i did the wrong thing by going through her phone but while i was doing that i discovered a message from an unknown number on her cell phone it was from some guy who went to another school and he said that he didnt know her when i called.....the message pretty much said......ok sweet see you tommorow...now is it something or just a wrong number keeping in mind though that she doesnt have the number in her phone. also should i ask her about it or what???
2007-05-07 20:14:16 · 15 answers · asked by scotty84 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would ask her... and be prepared for her to explode on you for invading her privacy. This could go two three ways:
1) She is guilty, and will come clean about her actions. If this is the case, you both have some work to do.
2) She is Innocent, and you will be in the Doghouse for a veeeery long time.
3) She is guilty, and she covers this by jumping all over you for catching her in the act. She will be dangling you by puppet strings in this worst case situation.
2007-05-07 20:25:25 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with what you did but i suggest you talk to her as i have once sent a sort of private message to the wrong number and had an angry angry wife on the other side of the line things like this can happen but if you have any doubts talk to her i am sure that she can tell you whats happening or otherwise keep a tab on her for now if you do have an idea that she might be wondering
2007-05-08 03:30:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is what made you feel like you had to go through her phone in the first place? You must have had reason to be suspicious. The fact is though that because you did not go above board to discover the truth, you probably won't get it now.
Think about it. If you ask her about it her first question to you is going to be "why were you going through my phone?" Are you ready to bring that kind of drama to your relationship? Let it go. You could be sabatoging your relationship with your detective work. If you don't trust her you shouldn't be with her. If you trust her deal with it directly with her instead of trying to "catch" her in something. You waste time doing that and it never ever ends up good.
2007-05-08 03:22:38 · answer #3 · answered by Fameis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should ask her whats about that message but i think if she doesn't have the number in her phone she doesn't know the person and the person that sent it just tipped the number wrong. better ask than have doubts. good luck
2007-05-08 03:19:42 · answer #4 · answered by papushyk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask her about it. Watch that she is looking in your eyes when she answers. Dont take things for what they look like there might well be an explination. It might be a guy that sent it to the wrong number by mistake. Trust her. But definatly talk to her :) good luck.
2007-05-08 03:19:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't ask her about it. not sure about your relationship with her, but why were you looking at her phone and through her messages? do you not trust her or are you just nosey?
that's probably what she will say. if she if doing something dodgy, then she'll come up with an excuse. if she isn't then she may get upset.
trust your gut about her. jealousy is not a road you want to go down.
2007-05-08 03:26:20 · answer #6 · answered by tangomikeone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't have his number in her phone so I'm betting the guy just texted the wrong number.
I think you can relax. Go ahead and ask her but I'll bet she doesn't even know that guy.
2007-05-08 03:19:18 · answer #7 · answered by Molly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you CALLED him? you sound creepy, very creepy. is she not allowd to have friends??????
if you called him and he said he didn't know, maybe he was weirded out by you calling him and was just confused by the whole thing. which means he's going to tell her some dude called from her phone asking who he was.
so she's going to know you went snooping through her phone. if you're that worried she's cheating on you, ask her who that guy was, and if they are jsut friends. you may not like it that she has guy friends, but that's your problem not hers.
just because she's dating you doesn't mean she has to cut off all her ties. as long as her guy friends know she's taken, that she's unavailable, what's the problem????
2007-05-08 03:21:15 · answer #8 · answered by Chrissy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have sent a text message back to him from her phone. Then you would have known for sure. But now you'll have to let it slide
2007-05-08 03:27:07 · answer #9 · answered by Douglas G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've already blown your cover by calling him & asking if he knew her, if he really does.
I've gotten wrong numbers, as well as my wife. It happens.
Do you really want to spy? Then keep your mouth shut and your eyes and ears open. Time will tell. People get sloppy when they screw around.
2007-05-08 03:22:22 · answer #10 · answered by faith_no_more86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋