Why do you always make the girl you love suffer?
I'm so sad my boyfriend really upseted me and i have no idea why he's mad at me and he knows that i really get upset and i suffer when he doesn't talk to me.I'm so saaaaaaaad :(
Why do guys do that?
2007-05-07 18:38:18 · 19 answers · asked by californian*girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I never cheated on him
FYI: I'm still a virgin.
2007-05-07 19:03:33 · update #1
I am so tired of girls complaining and saying that guys "always" do this or that. I never do any of those things. And I've been treated badly by plenty of girls, so don't place it all on the guys. It was this one guy who messed with you, so blame him.
2007-05-07 18:43:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is sad that the fault of one goes blame on all. But the same holds true for women, my ex wife cheated on me should I assume all women cheat?. people will do what peolpe do, everyone of us different in form and function. I am sorry your boyfriend hurt you, But the question you should be asking is to your self. what have you learned from it ? if what 7you have learned is all men are the same, well then my friend you shall repeat this lesson again an again in your lifetime, an lifetimes to come. maybe you have learned that everyone will hurt everyone in there life, but this is how we grow. Or maybe the lesson is, tell your friend whats wrong, forgive him/her, so maybe the lesson is on how to forgive? Try it you be surprized at all the weight that as been lifted off your heart! good luck and God bless!
2007-05-07 18:52:16 · answer #2 · answered by close_my_eyes2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are from mars and women are from venus.. Evn when you think you know the other... even if you know you know the other... You don't, men like to be more powerful and careless, while not seeing that girls need to be cared for, loved, held, kissed, hugged and all that good stuff...
The best way to solve any problem is to talk to him about it, express your feelings, tell him exactly how you feel..
2007-05-07 18:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by Adam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some do it just because they know it strikes a nerve, and to get some attention. I don't know what he did to upset you, but i think that might be his way of trying to get out of it by acting like he is mad at you.
2007-05-07 18:44:25 · answer #4 · answered by w g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think the better question would be why do you "always" go out with guys who make you "get really upset" and "suffer"?
2007-05-07 18:45:38 · answer #5 · answered by John S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think guys do it as a way to let you know, 'hey, that hurt my feelings or whatever and i'm not gonna talk to you so you will know you did something that i didn't like and hopefully you will come talk to me about it because i really do want to talk about it, i just don't know how to tell you that.'
2007-05-07 18:45:41 · answer #6 · answered by timothystrain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry not a guy. they do it cuz they can. if you let him hurt you chances are he will do it again and each time worse than before. so stop being sad and find a new bf
2007-05-07 18:48:37 · answer #7 · answered by dtmt_2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EXCUSE ME!!..
This is ONLY the particular guy that you are feeling... do not generalise just because of one bad apple..
Also most of it has nothing to do with guys... It has something to do with your own self.. you need to control how you feel...
take care..
2007-05-07 18:45:34 · answer #8 · answered by trymejames 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not making you, you're letting him. Get a spine and kick this chump to the curb. NOW!!
2007-05-07 18:45:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you mightve chosen the wrong dude to be your bf if he's making you sad and makes you suffer...
2007-05-07 18:42:52 · answer #10 · answered by flipenese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋