I’m head over heels for my best friend’s older brother. He recently turned 20, I am about to turn 18. He lives at home so I see him all the time since I spend all my time at their house. I also see him at school occasionally since he works as an intern with the schools engineer. We talk and joke around a lot, I make good eye contact, etc etc. but I’m not sure if he thinks I’m only interested in him as a brother.
He’s kind of secretive/mysterious when it comes to girls but I do get the vibe that he may be interested in me. I don’t want to scare him away, but I do want to show him that I defiantly do not consider him to be like a brother.
What should I do? What shouldn’t I do?
2007-05-07 18:07:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all, if you don't want him to see you as a sister, don't treat him as a brother. pretty soon he;'ll get the picture, and if he doesn't maybe you'll just have to spell it out for him. sometiems girls have to do that for those guys
2007-05-07 18:11:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heres one way. Ask him to something. Say, a bike ride, a walk in the park, a movie, play, whatever. But make sure its something where you can talk and get to know each other. Give him little hints to show your true feelings but not enough so that he doesn't have to think about it. Eventually, if he's interested, he'll respond. Good luck.
2007-05-07 18:16:16 · answer #2 · answered by fonti1992 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you shouldn't do is dress in anything skimpy. What I would do in this situation is to hug him alot but to press your boobs into his chest and do this for a small amount of time then let go. I would just advise to make alot of contact w/ him by talking and touching.
2007-05-07 18:18:08 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell you best friend that you like their brother, they might not be to happy about it...
Once you have done that I would walk right up to him and kiss him on the mouth!
2007-05-07 18:17:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
patience girl... wait for him to come up to you but i dare say that dont put too much hope on that coz in the end you'll be the one hurt if you'll be expecting too much
2007-05-07 18:13:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kiss him
2007-05-07 18:10:08 · answer #6 · answered by Lobster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋