I just recently broke up with my girlfriend and its been about 2 weeks ago and i have been trying to forget but it seems that I can't what should I do?
2007-05-07 16:34:06 · 16 answers · asked by bountyman181 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay busy. Hang out with your friends. Flirt with other girls. You get the idea....
2007-05-07 16:39:10 · answer #1 · answered by Randy G 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, I would cut off contact with her for awhile just to give you both time and space to start moving on without keeping the feelings there. Second, like others have said, definitely try to keep yourself occupied but not REALLY busy, take up a new hobby/sport/etc. and hang out with your friends more often but also make sure and leave your body enough time for resting too. I'd have to disagree with others that say to get back out in the game and start dating again because, from a girl's perspective, it's really disrespectful to your ex to break up with her and immediately start dating again and it's really hurtful (just speaking from personal experience when my ex waited 5 days to date another girl after 4 years together). Anyways, if you're still upset about it, I'd focus on hanging out with friends, girls or guys, and then when you feel better and start moving on (which will happen with time), then start going on some dates.
2007-05-07 16:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is let time mend the broken heart, for now try taking up a new hobby and just hang out with mates.
2007-05-07 16:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It takes time to heal a broken heart!! Some people heal quicker than others so just give yourself time to heal!! Hang out with a buddy or something because being alone makes it seem like it takes longer.
2007-05-07 16:44:21 · answer #4 · answered by krazykat4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I don't think therez a best solution to get over someone. we are all different and it depends on how much u liked each other and how long u were together. one thing u could do is to start doing other fun stuff that doesn't remind u of her. It takes time but i think u will get over it in due time, just don't keep looking back past is past, good luck and hope u will be able to get thru this
2007-05-07 16:53:10 · answer #5 · answered by Bluey07 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is going to take longer than 2 weeks. Distract yourself with a new hobby or a project you have been wanting to do. Try to keep your "thinking" time to a minimum. This is always where i found the most pain. Best wishes.
2007-05-07 16:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by fair blue 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well if you broke up with her there had to be a good reason behind it do what ever it take to get her out of your system and find your self someone better cues if you wallow in it it only get,s worst you question your own judgment on everything and any other women who mite come in to your world next there,s some good one,s out there and a lot of em who have no idea of some of the good guy,s out there like you and me be kind to your self once she out of your head find a good one for your self
2007-05-07 16:51:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.lick hagendaz strawberry in a cozy bed watching comedy featuring Robin williams
2, regard your broke up as a good chance to grow up emotionally or as a gods decision to give you a better girl
3.go to the beach and smell the fresh salty wind and thank god for your aliveness
2007-05-07 16:50:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Psalms 147:3
He heals the brokenhearted And binds up their wounds.
Go to God about it. by the way it means emotional wounds
2007-05-07 16:42:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
try keeping yourself busy and lean more on your friends for support, also try not to think about the times you spent together..
2007-05-07 16:42:44 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋