I have been accepted into an excellent nursing school, to start in the fall. I am a 33yr old married mother of 2 living outside of the state where the college is, but the school is just 7 minutes from my home, and it does its clinicals and placements at the hospital where I would like to work.
Here's the problem. Being out of state, I get no state aid from either state, and after government sub & unsubsidized loans, I still need $11,500 per year to go to this college. I have been denied for alternative loans because my credit isnt so good. My father has had 2 massive heart attacks and a double bypass. My family's life changed in the blink of an eye. I have put all my money (ok, my husbands money also) into keeping my father alive-his meds are expensive and at this time he is getting no help paying for these. $800 per month. He was in CICU for 23 days, 30 miles away from home and I put the rest of my life on hold to be there for him every day.
2007-05-07
15:44:05
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notso_recoveringwino
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To get to the point, after my dads first heart attack, I knew, I wanted to be a nurse someday. After his second, well, I was sure. He had a nurse that held my hand, while I held his. I was crying, he was holding my hand, yet heavily sedated, breathing tube, heart lung machine, a tear rolled down his cheek. I wiped it away. This nurse, she told me, you dad is a strong man, and I promise you, he will go home. He is going to make it, I didnt think he was, his doctor wasnt hopefull. His nurse told me that the man in that bed was strong, had a lot of fight in him and he will go home. Sometimes I think her encouragement is what kept him fighting, even when he was ready to let go. Her genuine concern for him is what kept him alive, and I want to give that to someone, I want to keep someone else's dad fighting. I need to be a nurse, I just need another plan for tuition. I have no cosigner~any suggestions would be appreciated. Thank you..
2007-05-07
15:53:56 ·
update #1