My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost a year. And the last couple of weeks he's been asking to fondle my breasts and see them, but I keep stopping him and saying no. But our one year anniversay is in a few weeks and he's really asking that it should be his gift. But I have reservations. I'm only 16 and I don't know if I want to do it at this point in my life. What do I do? Do I give him what he wants after he waited for like a year? or not?
2007-05-07
15:13:36
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost a year. And the last couple of weeks he's been asking to fondle my breasts and see them, but I keep stopping him and saying no. But our one year anniversay is in a few weeks and he's really asking that it should be his gift. But I have reservations. I'm only 16 and I don't know if I want to do it at this point in my life. What do I do? Do I give him what he wants after he waited for like a year? or not? And we already decided that we would never have sex, but is this a step in that direction?
2007-05-07
15:27:21 ·
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Listen to me. Do not EVER do something because you think you owe your boyfriend! You dont' owe him anything. I dont' care how long you've been going out. If you aren't ready to expose yourself to him then don't. Guys are usually more open about this kind of stuff. For example, if you asked to see his dick (although i don't know why you'd WANT to) he'd most likely have no problem showing you. They are your breasts, your body..if you don't feel comfortable, then DON'T..because you will regret it later.
2007-05-07 15:20:03
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answered by mlove1307 6
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Breasts are no big deal and if ur 16 and have been together for a year... sure why not but dont do it in a room alone. Try letting him doing it in a movie theatre or something where you know it cant lead to something more.
2007-05-07 15:18:50
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answered by Rebelleader 2
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at 16 you are not ready for your relationship to go that far. the fact that you are asking "the world" is evidence of that. if you are uncomfortable with anything do NOT do it. he can either accept this or not. i remember 16 and i remember that the more you give to your boyfriend the more he is going to want. so if you show them to him he is going to want to push the envelope a little more. are you ready for that? i say to keep waiting. you are not ready and if he really cares about you, he will back off.
good luck with this. always follow your heart. it will never lead you astray.
2007-05-07 15:23:24
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answered by sashimi 2
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Go with your feelings. You wrote you don't want to at this point in your life. Follow your intuition. Showing him your breast will just lead to showing him something else.........
Maybe you should go make him a gift or purchase one and tell him you already have a gift or one in mind and that's not it so in other words, "stop asking!"
2007-05-07 15:20:45
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answered by MARTHA D 2
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I agree...talk to your mom. But just in case you don't, think about this. If you give in to him on this...what is the next thing he is going to ask for? If he really respected you, he wouldn't be asking you to do something you are uncomfortable with and he wouldn't be pushing you. If you say no and he continues, you really should dump him. You are so young and there will definitely be other guys out there. You really should believe me. I've been there, done that, and I really regret it.
2007-05-07 15:19:56
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answered by michaele_524 1
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Many men like breast milk and getting it out. Some drink it everyday and have done for years. Apparently its very good for their health and can prevent many long term illnesses prevalent in modern society such as diabetes, dementia, asthma, heart disease and even prostate cancer. Its also good for you and can help reduce risk of breast cancer. Its called ANR and there are yahoo support groups for it. Relax and enjoy it!
2016-05-17 23:29:10
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answered by ? 3
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for me as a man opinion
if he really love you,he will respect your decision,it not a matter of time.it is the matter of respect.if he didnt respect you,you wont have the happiness with him.if really like that trust me,you can forget him. coz its more lust than love here.
what made me proud of you is that you still have this persistent. you have done an excellent job,maintain it. trust me,most of man always want the first time from they wife,ofcourse they will say they dont mind with their girlfriend,bcoz the selfishness,they never know the girl will be they wife or not,so they will take it while they can .so,dont do it except with your (real) husband.
regret always come after,its never come before.
it is your dignity
please dont take it as a present.
good luck~
2007-05-07 15:49:09
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answered by vick 1
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If you are not ready don't do it. You will regret it later in life. Just because he is begging you for it doesn't mean you ahve to let him. And by asking strangers here for advice ...you are not ready for this. If he really loves you, he should respect you and your decision . I don't think he really loves you or he would have respected your right to say no.
2007-05-07 15:23:43
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answered by Anonymous
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WTF?
Don't base a potentially life changing decision on the opinion of a bunch of strangers and weirdos on the Internet!
He can see them after you are married. if he is not the one for you, then think about how embarrassed you will be knowing that you showed your breasts for the first time to someone who is now the husband of someone else!
2007-05-07 15:23:21
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answered by Randy G 7
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its not like he has a set of his own to fondle and touch and just play with he could be asking to have sex .
2007-05-07 15:18:59
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answered by psycho 3
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