I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years and now i decided to move from NY to AZ for her, to be with her, but she keeps thinking I've been unfaithful when I haven't. I have broke up with her a few times, but now my heart is broken n my friends keep telling me she is not for me. The better i behave the worst she's with me. Do you think she is really for me ?
2007-05-07 15:07:26 · 9 answers · asked by ricksobo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's really unfortunate that she keeps doubting you instead of being thankful for the huge sacrifice you made to be close to her. If your friends are telling you that she's not right, and you really trust them, it may be time to listen. My best friend once set me up with a guy and a year and a half later, told me I needed to let him go. I knew she had my best interests at heart so I listened to her: usually our best friends see things that maybe we don't. As for your girlfriend, she may be insecure with you because she doesn't trust herself. Does she have any baggage or history of other lovers hurting her? That can take a long time to heal. If you really think she's worth it, you might need to get some professional help to get rid of the problem, as you don't want an accusing partner for the years to come. However, you sound like a fabulous guy who deserves a woman who is happy with herself, will treat you the way you deserve, and will appreciate your faithfulness. You could always come here; I know a lot of wonderful girls who need a good man like you :) Don't doubt what your heart tells you. It's smarter than we think! Good luck!
2007-05-07 15:25:38 · answer #1 · answered by dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is important in any relationship. If I were to answer your question honestly, I would say no, if she doesn't trust you after 3 years.
However, I don't know the whole story either, not by a long shot. If I were in your shoes, I would sit down with her, explain how I feel, and try to find out why she feels the way she does. I would make my decision on whether to end it or not based on that conversation.
2007-05-07 15:12:44 · answer #2 · answered by smashcruiserarc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she cant' trust you, then i'm sorry, but i don't think that it's going to work out...so sorry. Any guy that would move from ny to az for his gf has gotta be sweet and your 2 good 4 her. Good Luck
2007-05-07 15:20:37 · answer #3 · answered by Bello Stella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she's not! She has issues!
First, you have to realize this isn't about you, it's about her and her needs. She sounds VERY high maintenance and this characteristic in her will not change, no matter what you do. Sure, you could try reassuring her every time you see her how she's the woman of your dreams and how you live only for her, but she won't believe it, if she isn't ready to accept it herself.
2007-05-07 15:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by John B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you've broken up with her a few times, can you blame her? She feels insecure about your relationship because you have given her "a few" reasons to be!
2007-05-07 15:13:54 · answer #5 · answered by Esma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reassure her there is nothing to worry about.Make her feel confident and sucure....she might be too insucure.Well good luck females are tricky but if you love her deal with it and try to help her insucrities.
2007-05-07 15:14:23 · answer #6 · answered by Brianna M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO it will get worse when u move!! sounds like she is looking for a way out!!
2007-05-07 15:13:51 · answer #7 · answered by Lee Lee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your haveing this many doubts then its time to move on.
2007-05-07 15:16:10 · answer #8 · answered by fa0099 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pitty her.sorry man.
2007-05-07 15:24:01 · answer #9 · answered by Shallow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋