i m 22 and she is 16...Is she too young for me???She is so pretty and she likes me too,but i dont know....?

Answer 1

5 minutes to get in 20 years to get out.....JAILBAIT!!! She may still be pretty @18 but you'll have to wait 2 years to find out.

Answer 2

As a parent of a 15 year old I say Yes. 6 years is not that big of a difference later in life but at this time of your lives it is. I remember when I was 22(believe it or not) and there is no way you should be dating a 16 yr old. As mentioned in other answers, wait a couple or 3 years and if there is something there other than her infatuated with an older man plus your infatuation in a teenager then try then. If it meant to be then a few years won't stop it.

Answer 3

Yeah she is way too young for you. I know the feeling though I have had 16 and 17 year olds like me. It sucks cause I couldn't do anyhting cause I'm 27. It's ILLEGAL !!! and you can go to jail for a long time if you do anything with her. If you both love each otehr you'll wait the 2 years until she is 18. Then you'll be like 24 and she'll be 18 and it will be legal man. Don't throw your life away for sex with a 16 year old !!!! it's not worth getting labled a sexual predator.

Answer 4

Absolutely!!!
How smart were you at 16? She is a baby! She is at the stage in life where she may look like a woman but she is very much a child. Find a pretty girl that is over 18. What are you thinking? You knew the answer to this before you even asked the question. Come on!

If it was my daughter we would be having a CHAT!

Answer 5

I am 16 myself and I am interested in a man who is 22. IMO I would wait, it does not matter what other think of the relationship but she may need more time growing up. To be a kid and go to parties, smoke, drink. And to narrow down her values. This does not mean you have to stop seeing her or talking to her. But giving her space and time to grow as a person is best. She may be mature but has she experience life yet? If not, are you going to do it with her? Or do you need to settle down and focus on work and bills. If you feel both of you are at the same maturity level, and you both are comfortable then wait it out till she is 18. Then officially date her and then you can see if it meant to be. But with this in mind, be ready for people to judge you, critics you, belittle you, and laugh at you. Love it's always easy but if it's the right person it'll be worth it.


X God Bless

Answer 6

Your idea of a relationship is going to be different for both of you. For a teenager, it's going out, hanging with friends, seeing all the new movies, blah blah blah. For you, it's different. You don't have time for this! You got a job! (right?) I know you're probably blissfully in love, but this will end sooner or later and the real person comes shining through. You will find that this girl is still a kid in a woman's body. I warned my brother-in-law about this when he married my baby sis at 20. They are 13 years apart, but have made it through. You might be better off as the 'big brother' for now. Give it two years. If you find that you just can't live without her, then go for it. Parents can't say anything then, but for now, they own your butt.

Answer 7

Yes, she is too young. She still has her life ahead of her. Are you willing to go to jail for her/ Go to the prom with her and all of her high school friends? Would you feel comfortable taking her around your MATURE friends? How does her parents feel or do they even know.

You did not mention love. If you love her, and I am sure you believe you do, just wait until she is 18. It will be better in the long run. If not, she will continue to be pretty on paper while you are sitting behind bars.

The world is looking down on sex predators.

Answer 8

You are WAY too old for her. Any 22 year old who is contemplating a relationship with a 16 year old child is obviously immature or devious. Which catagory do you fall into?

For Pete's sake, at least wait until she is 18! My husband is 6 years older then me, but when we met I was 20, and we still had problems with the age difference.

Answer 9

I"m in the same prediciment right now, except i just turned 17. unlike the others, i am ready to be in a serious relationship. The guy it was with though.... he didn't know what he wanted, has too many confused emotions about me and what were doing now and doesn't know where to turn. I can't very well tell him to grow up, but u need to think about why your doing this with this girl . I love the man i'm with right now, more than anything. but i wish I had never started sleeping with him, maybe things would be easier for him now. go for it, she might be ready, but SLOWLY. very, very, slowly.
and its not illegal, according to my state law 794.05 it is listed as an exception to the "18" rule for persons 16-24 are allowed to legally engage in "relations"

Answer 10

Umm, She is so pretty, and she likes me too. She is 16, you are 22. There are girls your age, hell I am your age. And st this point in your life, if that is what is keeping you attached to a girl way to young for you, then you are in trouble Hun. She is in such a different point in her life, and it all will change. I have been there, I know, I was once that girl. Not to mention, like everyone else has said, she is jail bait. Like my parents, hers are not going to go for it and it is not worth it. There are a million fish in the sea, and many more girls who are your age who will have more in common with you and are closer to the same point in life.

Answer 11

BOTH OF YOU are too young for anything. theres too much out there to see and experience (not talkng bout othr ppl) but all over the world. and while ure trying to do these things, what will she do? she has to finish school. if you turn her into an adult at 16, you may possibly only end up ruining her life, (teenage motherhood/no further educ/etc.etc.etc.). be her friend and wait for her to come into her own being. then if the 2 of u are still single, go for what u know!!!!!!!!!