I really like this guy and we have been making out a lot and fooling around. He knows I'm a virgin but he's not. I used to want to wait for marriage to have sex or until I find the right one, but now I'm not so sure. I'm very tempted, but I keep thinking that if I have sex with him, then I may regret it because I may have wanted to save my virginity. I am 22 yrs. old by the way. I also am afraid of getting pregnant or getting an STD or something. Most girls have lost their virginity at a younger age. How will I know when is the right time?
2007-05-07 14:49:06 · 13 answers · asked by Lost Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When it feels right... When you're in the "heat of the moment"..its like something inside you says "okay, its time" or screams "NOOO!!!". You'll know it. Making out is a good warm up, but honestly, its nothing close to the real thing in how much it REALLY MATTERS if you're doing it with someone you really care for. Most people don't know just how much passion, how many unknown feelings are behind sex. Its supposed to be fun..but its also supposed to mean something.
2007-05-07 14:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Use protection if you don't have the (girl)balls to resist. I think you're just gonna be another notch in his belt. Is that worth giving up your virginity for?
It's the right time when YOU know for sure and don't have to ask random people what to do with your body. I'm not trying to burst your bubble or block your boyfriend, but sex is totally different for guys. It's not making love, it's a purely physical, non emotional knocking boots moment for guys. You're lucky if you get a hug if he doesn't get off.
2007-05-07 14:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're no longer equipped. You are sixteen and also you must wait until your married, or a minimum of 20. You must wait. Your frame isn't equipped for it. You would suppose you're But you're NOT. believe me you do not must provide into according to strain. P.S. If you suppose breaking your hymen will make it bigger, your fallacious. It will nonetheless harm the primary time when you consider that good, not anything has been in there but besides for possibly a tampon..........your to immature and irresponsible for intercourse.
2016-09-05 11:48:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't have to ask thats for sure. BUt you shouldnt do anything regardless of your age until you are absolutely sure this is what you want that your in love and in a solid relationship and can handle the responsibilty of your actions. Don't let anyone rush you into doing something you dont feel a hundred percent comfortable with, dont do anything you will regret. The first time should be comfortable and loving and treated with respect
2007-05-07 14:57:29 · answer #4 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should continue to wait until you are in a committed and loving relationship..if you have sex with this guy, you will become very attached and since your relationship seems to be based on sexual things, I am willing to bet this guy wouldn't want to date you after you have sex with him. I am also positive that you would regret having sex for the first time with a casual fling. I think sex before marriage is fine and kudos to you for waiting this long! But seriously, wait for someone who loves you to have sex for the first time--then if you're with someone who really cares about you, talking about getting tested for STDs and using protection will be easy and natural.
2007-05-07 15:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by michellejuki 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The right time is diffrent for everyone, I would say if you feel your in love and you are both willing to talk about it before then it may be worth it however " USE PROTECTION"
for you and him, getting pregnant or getting an STD is alway a risk even with someone you know or love...Good luck
2007-05-07 15:01:53 · answer #6 · answered by dheck03 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't lose ur virginity to him
just wait until marriage
then you'd be thankful you waited, for if u dont get to marry this guy, and you do have sex with him...
well, in the future you might have wished that you stayed a virgin for mr. right
2007-05-07 14:58:14 · answer #7 · answered by Ichigo M 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you have a lot of good reason to wait .I'm only suggesting that you wait until you are total sure because once it done there is no going back so be careful be safe. And applaud you for being a virgin
2007-05-07 15:01:41 · answer #8 · answered by day shaun 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, then obviously you are not ready. Do not do something that you will probably regret later.
If he is the guy for you, then you will have the rest of your life to have sex after you are married, so what is the rush?
2007-05-07 14:57:17 · answer #9 · answered by Randy G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Putting any religious concerns aside (which could supercede this)
First, ask yourself why you are having second thoughts?
Is it because you are afraid of losing the guy?
Are you horny?
If either of these two, WAIT!
If it is because you feel a special bond with this person and would like to share this experience with him?
If so, then go with your heart!
If you go ahead, use at LEAST ONE form of protection.
2007-05-07 15:00:19 · answer #10 · answered by Matt 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋