hi its betty, the drama have my family has really blown a fuse today! if anybody been following my soap they w

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know that my adult step kids dont like me.and my brother has married my step daughter my brother is an acholic. since then i bumped into my brothers ex and she said he thought i was evil and i was only with my hubby for money..but the worst of it that i lied about my father abusing me when i was 13..i really have had enough should i take him to court. he keeps stirring and my step kids dont see me or there dad(oh i wonder why? is ex also told us he slapped her and kept her hostage in his house when he was drunk and told her and her family to stay away from me.. how can i sort this out????he also told is ex i am in love with him..how sick can u get..

i feel humiliated and betrayed, i called my mum and told her that she must intervene and make sure she tells him the truth about the abuse. i amASIAN GIRLso everything has been kept a secret. im tired of the lies.god knows what he has told everybodyelse. i havnt taken my dads to court becouse my mum said it would bring shame on me.why cant she think of me? i need for my brother to stop this hate ..help me please....

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Ouch looks like that spark become a fire. Its raging all over your life. You've got a step-daughter that married her step-uncle. You've got a husban that apperantly has zero baring on his daughters descisions. Your just there, and your mom couldn't give you the right advice sense it seems she is still dealing with guilt over your dad. Ouch, ouch, really if you could wash your hands of all of this you'd be better off, since I know you not going to do that. You need therapy. I know, I know its a can'd answer, but honest your problems run so deep that the only way to help you would be for someone else to step into your life, anything short of that is just asking for this to get worse. You've had bad mistakes happen'd before you could make choices and now that your making choices your making bad mistakes. I couldn't explain to you in one sitting how deep this runs, good luck!