HELP!!!make a move or wait???

Question

ok well theirs this guy that i have a crush on..n well hes told alot of ppl that he likes me too,,but hes kinda shy n hasnt said anything to me..we talk n everything..but i dont know if hes gonna make a move or if hes waiting 4 me to do one.or should i just be patient .....i need help!! plz some1 .....HELP!!

Answer 1

The communication skill between a man and woman are sometimes weird but it's a shy he should try to take the initiative to tell him that you like him depending on how long you know him you should make the first move it seems like you have your head on your shoulders and you know what you want just go for it would be let loose in life if you do not take a risk than you have not gained nothing so say would like to go somewhere with me if he says yes than the rest is up to you and good luck on your journey of life.

Answer 2

Normally the case is that guys make the first move. But this is not always correct in each and every condition.
It doesn't matter what the guy has told to others. It matters when he say it to you. Hence don't think of what he said to millions of others. It is of no use.
What I suggest you is to be patient for some time. It won't happen that he will start liking someone else if you won't proceed now. Wait for some time and then probably he will speak of himself.
Best Wishes.

Answer 3

I know ur question is for the guys....but in my opinion I think if there's a connection between the both of u nd the other person is too shy to make the move then u should go for it before u regret not doin it...also don't act too desperate because the other person may be turned off by that!!....Like I said, it all depends on the relationship =]...but girls don't make the first move cause the guy will think ur easy nd they will always expect u to make the move =| Don't ask the person wat they want u to do to them...u'll know at the heat of the moment, it just happens!! On the other hand, others may think differently to my answer as to u, but all I can say is I hope my answer will be some use to u nd good luck in finding the right one =D

Answer 4

tell him how you feel. usually a guy who does not say anything too you but to other people is just afraid of what he might lose if he is rejected. i had the same question with a girl and i let her slip through and it was all because i was to shy to do anything about it. he is probably just hoping to god that you will make the first move.

good luck and hope it works out

Answer 5

If he is really shy he is probally going to cut his legs off before asking you out (meaning he is too shy for his own good). Guide him in his time of need :P but not tempt him into the forbidden fruits, at least not for a few dates :P

Answer 6

What have you done to show him that you like him like body contact, comments, and maybe a little flirting. That's the stuff that gives guys the confidence to make the move first with out you having to do it directly . yA Dig

Answer 7

ive talked to tons of guys and they say they love it when the girl makes the first move. Dont completely throw yourself at him though..after the first move just let him do all the moving after lol.

Answer 8

How long have you known this person? A year? 2 days?

Answer 9

Forget waiting for him to make a move - if you like him, make the move instead! Ask him out.

Answer 10

well if he is shy... I think you should go ahead and make a move, you shouldn't keep waiting cause then he may think you dont like him or something.