Are women biologically/socially programmed to care for a guy after physical or sexual contact? Is it an innate thing, and thats why men can f*** a girl and move on and women often start to care about the guy afterwards? It has happened to me.
2007-05-07 11:25:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didnt actually like him as a person, we didnt get on, but from the kissing and cuddling, sleeping wrapped around each other, i started to really care for him, be happy when i saw him, miss him LOADS. It was ridiculous because i had no feelings for him whatsoever before that night.
2007-05-07 11:31:08 · update #1
Im not bitter or anything about this! It seems funny now because we dont conect in ANY way intellectually/socially! I just wanted the sex but I didnt expect to feel that way, I was surprised when it happened and i wondered why.
2007-05-07 11:41:22 · update #2
To Thozar: I used that word to express the sentiment on the part of the man... you have obviously never taken an english literature class and tried to place words into context.
2007-05-07 11:44:02 · update #3
ehhh, it depends on the situation. If I f uck my girlfriend, then I usually care for her more, but if its like someone from a bar or club or somewhere, U just couldn't care
2007-05-07 11:29:59 · answer #1 · answered by Jeremy 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It is impossible to answer, anything said would be nothing but sexist assumptions. Everyone is different and I know how male bashing is in full swing and in style but most of it really isn't true. The same goes for people who have these stupid preconceived notions about what women want too. It is all so stupid.
Lets just drop the prejudices and crazy claims because it depends on the person. Guys can actually care about something other than sex.
2007-05-07 11:35:29 · answer #2 · answered by mattpfrog 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately there are people who are built to connect after intercourse and some that aren't.
VALUES: There are things in life that should be prioritized and that is a persons own VALUE and worth.
What are yours? Did you believe that by sleeping with a person you would get closer? Unfortunately it doesn't work that way. I think both parties should come to an agreement of each others actions / feelings before just jumping in the sack...or just take the consequences that come with your actions. Don't blame others for your actions...you have a choice...and sometimes all of our choices aren't good ones. That is why we learn and move on.
2007-05-07 11:33:08 · answer #3 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are programmed completely different then men! Women usually have feelings for someone before sleeping with them, while guys feel only with there tool unless they see a relationship in the picture.
2007-05-07 11:39:19 · answer #4 · answered by ~4NOW~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a tough one - but i would say that woman do tend too attach more to the love making aspect of sex and us blokes tend to just go for the physical aspect
but not all of us are like that! so keep the faith - i love sex with my partner of 7 months and have not cheated on her or any of my other previous partners!
i also enjoy the closeness and comfort afterwards!!
2007-05-07 11:30:34 · answer #5 · answered by villa_mad_lad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No as I was dating this guy who I didnt fall for but he fell for me an yesterday after almost 3 months said he loved me over a lunch in a pub :~l I completely ignored it. As what do you say to someone you dont love.
2007-05-07 11:29:01 · answer #6 · answered by Bonnie B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all women want is to be wanted there is not a women in the world that doesn't if they say its wrong they are lying .men they think with Wat's down bellow well don't we all sometimes but we all have needs we all want love but women always want more than just sex .
2007-05-07 11:34:20 · answer #7 · answered by shellydoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is true for the most part.
It's the reason (fair or unfair), that women need to be more cautious in choosing a partner.
2007-05-07 11:32:07 · answer #8 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, a chemical reaction makes a girl feel more attatched to a sexual partner.
2007-05-07 11:28:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a male, I seriously thought it was the other way around.
A woman wrote, "The only true love a woman has is maternal, the love for her child."
I'm not sure who wrote that. It may have been Gloria Steinham.
Whoever wrote it, that has always stuck in my head and I've believed it.
2007-05-08 01:53:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It because us women have feelings, where as some men think with their man hood!!
2007-05-07 11:28:54 · answer #11 · answered by x Jay Jay x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋