alright well im almost 17 and i have a wonderful boyfriend who is 18. we have been caught doing things we weren't suppose to be doing but that was a long time ago and now everytime i get in trouble they try and use him as a reward or something like i can't see him. but the thing is i never do anything wrong i've been good ever since. and im not just being a dramatic teenager, i know when i do something wrong and i haven't been.. what do i do just give in to them and not see my boyfriend and wait for them to say its okay? or sneak to see him. please help, all help is much appreciated
2007-05-07 11:20:15 · 2 answers · asked by ♥ Lyss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
First rule is to respect and honor your parents. They are the ones responsible for your raising and protection.
But, be honest with your parents. Talk to them and be honest how you feel - with respect, of course.
If you sneak out to see him, you will breech your parents trust and no good will come from that. You need for your parents to trust you.
Make most of the time you spend with your boyfriend with others around - often with your parents - if he wants to hang out with you, let it be along with the folks. For one thing, this will keep the both of you in check and it will also raise your parents trust.
If you have decent parents who are not controling, who are truly interested in your well-being, you will find this to go well for you.
Soon, you will be 18, maybe going on to further education. You will be making up your own mind on how to conduct your life. What your parents teach you now will be a good framework for future decision making.
2007-05-07 12:03:56 · answer #1 · answered by TroothBTold 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop seeing him till your parents are ok with it
2007-05-07 11:27:18 · answer #2 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋