ok so i rele rele like my boyfriend and we've kinda been taking it slow and i think that he wants to kiss me at a cook out he is having.... but we've only been going out for one month the night of his cook out
2007-05-07 11:05:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
kissing is not something that people usually wait on.
it's great that you two are totally into each other's company, but... you need to mark some claim on him then
the most important thing about kissing is that you don't think about it. don't worry about it. don't worry about what you or he is doing. if he starts to be obviously thinking about what he is doing, and what to do next, tell him to stop thinking
if he starts to do something you're uncomfortable with, slowly push him away from doing that, while maintaining the kiss, unless you are totally shocked and apallled
2007-05-07 11:11:04 · answer #1 · answered by Jim 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well its good that you are taking things slow and dont let things start moving to fast once you do kiss.
And I'd actually try to talk to him about it. It might be hard but things will go a lot smoother if you talk about stuff like that.
But I say go for the kiss. And kissing anit sleezy as long as you don't make yourself out to be a slut and kiss every guy you walk up to.
By the way a month is a good time to be waiting for a kiss so I think you both deserve it.
Good Luck!
2007-05-07 11:12:03 · answer #2 · answered by taytayjomar89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have a really nice boyfriend who is not pressuring you for anything you and he aren't ready for. What a mature, responsible couple you are!
Kissing is nice. I think you two will enjoy it when it happens.
2007-05-07 11:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by Vivian D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss the man!
2007-05-07 11:14:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly if you're not kissing you're not much different than just close friends. I think it's sweet that you waited, but just it's not sleazy so just go for it!
2007-05-07 11:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by Lizzie5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think waiting until the 4th or 5th date is best! But your probably already way past that so get close and pucker up! It's coming!!!
2007-05-07 11:09:17 · answer #6 · answered by LaurenRachelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it doesnt seem sleazy to kiss your boyfriend no matter what. i kissed my ex girlfriend on our first date and everyone since then. just take it at your own pace and do it when your ready
2007-05-07 11:10:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both will know when the time is right. You have waited long enough its just when you feel comftable now. Good luck.
2007-05-07 11:13:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm surprised you waited so long, most girls your age would be pregnant by now. Good for you, but yeah, I say go for it but take the other stuff slowly.
2007-05-07 11:09:39 · answer #9 · answered by kj 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The answer to this is different for everyone. So wait until it feels right for you, and you're sure you won't regret it later.
2007-05-07 11:14:00 · answer #10 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋