I was spying on my new girlfriend getting changed and i dont like her level of hair. How do i make her fix it?

Question

I dont want to appear rude or let her know that i was spying on her. Any good hints i could drop that would scare her into doing it?

Answer 1

the ultimate decision to change it or not is up to her, so even if u make subtle hints, it doesn`t guarantee she`ll do anything!!! i for one tend to go with what i like, & if someone tries to get me to do things their way & usually just do the opposite because i can`t be bothered to care what a guy thinks!!! guys come & go & if a guy doesn`t like me the way i am, then i`m not interested!!!

Answer 2

I presume you're talking about her ... intimate hair. If so, it's probably best not to mention it at the moment. Otherwise, you'll have to admit that you were spying on her. Not a good idea.

Once you've had a chance to see it legitmately, just talk to her about it. Delicately. If you can't be honest with each other about a thing like that, your relationship's not going to work well anyway. Actually, it would probably be wise not to mention it the first time she lets you see it; wait till your relationship develops a bit more first.

Answer 3

First of all... you don't want to appear rude... but you were spying on her and above all that appears rude!

Secondly, you want to "scare" her into fixing her "level of hair" to your likes!?

You seriously need to grow up... you are the quintessential "loser boyfriend". Hopefully your girlfriend will see this very soon!

Answer 4

well first of all, EWWWW!! dont spy, that turns people off automaticly. and while she was changing?? dude, you gotta stop that. but back to your question... well, there's not much you can do. its her hair, she can do what she wants with it. but if its really bothering you, then you should tell at a time when you can see this hair, like at the pool or something. then you should kinda pull her aside and tell her about her hair. she will appreciate your honesty and YOU wont blow your cover. Good Luck!!

Answer 5

You don't want to appear rude when you're being rude.
You don't want her to know that you're stalking or peeping.
You do want to *scare* her.

You refer to her as a "girlfriend", which would make you a "boyfriend".

You don't look like much of a "friend", more of a fiend.
Whatever your age, IMHO you do look like an immature boy.

Grow up. If it's a meaningful relationship, such things can eventually be discussed and, perhaps, negotiated.

Answer 6

Just get over it. You shouldn't want to change her if you really love her. You shouldn't scare her into anything; she's obviously comfortable with the way that she looks. If you have that much of a problem with it, break up with her and find a girl without any hair.

Answer 7

maybe make a deal with her, if she will go thro the pain of waxing intimately then you will too - sack,back n crack!!!

Learn some Respect!!!

oh and lets hope if she decides to spy on you changing she likes everything she sees cos, enlargement - a lot more difficult.

Answer 8

well i don't know but my bf told me right he did not like it to get rid of it so i don't know if that helps but we have been together for 3 years now and he told me right when we started going out good luck so just tell her how you feel about I'm sure everything will be OK! and my boyfriend told me i had hair on my lip and we did not almost break up i just got rid of it so don't worry if she like you she will understand

Answer 9

subtly get onto a conversation about a girlfriend ur " brother had" and how he had that problem that u have and how u thought it was grose and then immediately get off topic otherwise she'll be suspicious, good luck!

Answer 10

Just ask her if she wants to go to a salon really quick. While there ask her if she can get a trim. Your welcome: D
O no affence, but that's really gross, spying on her changing.