There was this guy in my life......?

Question

There was a guy in my life for about two years. I was married then and nothing actually happened between us but I was painfully in love with him. When he would look at me his eyes would just light up, I know the same things happened in mine. But now two years after my divorce I am finally at a place where I feel like I've gotten over him but I bumped into him yesterday and I saw that same look in his eyes again. I fervently pursued him before and ended up feeling like a stalker and I don't want to go through that again but ever since I saw him yesterday I haven't been able to get him off my mind. Should I let this go or give it one more shot? I don't want to be that pathetic girl I was then but I don't want to let something special get away from me again either. What would you do?????

Answer 1

Of Course and be darned sure not to talk about the EX- or the times when it was Hubby and you doing Whtevr.
Let him know you were always in his Scoperange now he can Xpect to be answered by those ? ~>@<~ looks of days gone by.
You were not pathetic ,He may have been sure you belived u r WedVows, and would hate HIM & YOU the next morning.
He could have been looking to the Future.

Answer 2

well find out what his intentions are? just be a friend to him at first...get to know him all over, cause he could have changed when you guys where both single...don't over do it...just be relaxed and be yourself with him..suggest maybe going to a lunch, so its day time and not so date like lol...

make sure what your feeling for him is for real also..i mean i know how it can be feeling all excited with seeing him again and now your single after being married for so long..so it could just be that rush of excitment that is making you want to get back together...so try to contact him, be friends, hang out again...get to know one another...then see how your feelings are then good luck