I'm a tomboy-ish type of girl. I'm funny and really freindly. But it seems that I'm always that girl that becomes one of the guys. Am I doing something wrong?
2007-05-07 10:11:43 · 29 answers · asked by starless_eyes_108 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like they do like you, just as a friend though, which is ok, you sound young, just wait, soon you will be the one that they all wish for, cuz your more like them, one thing to remember is that guys are about 10 years behind girls until about the age of 30, emotionally.. So find a guy a few years older than yourself if you are wanting to date someone, when the guys your age see this they will have to grow up quickly or loose you to the older guys...which is where you should be anyway.
2007-05-07 10:18:23 · answer #1 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so,you are what you are and that is how it is. Being a tomboy is who you are,individuality is good setting you apart from the rest. The right person will see the true you and if he really cares for you, he will take you as you are and not try to change you. Variety is the spice of life, and if we all were the same it would be a boring world indeed. I was also going to say that maybe you are just meeting the "wrong" kind of guys. But believe me,don't worry..there will be someone for you.
2007-05-07 17:19:32 · answer #2 · answered by emeraldfire68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't become one of the guys... Cool to like some of the same stuff guys do but if completely fall into the whole tomboy gig when you fall into becoming one of the guys you will always be looked at like that... you need to break away from that.
2007-05-07 17:15:51 · answer #3 · answered by Wes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, and how do you know for sure that none of them like you? And since you didn't mention your age but you said "girl" I'm going to assume you're a teenager. There will be plenty of guys who like you later on. For now, looks that are maybe a little girlie and show off your body more will catch their attention faster but a guy that really likes you will probably end up being one of those guys that you're frineds with who gets to know your personality and thinks "wow that's a great girl".
2007-05-07 17:20:39 · answer #4 · answered by Kaiya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Don't ever change. I was always the same way and after years of thinking I would never find anyone I ended up bumping into and then marrying a boy I went to elementary school with. Someone will love you for you, you just have to be patient.
2007-05-07 17:15:55 · answer #5 · answered by Question Asker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you can use it to your advantage as long as you do it well. even if you're a tomboy, I hope you envest in a good beauty routine. (this doesn't have to include make-up) if you have clear skin, shiny hair, and you're in fit shape, you're game as anyone else. if you are a pretty tomboy, most guys find this hot. but don't change yourself for anyone! don't compromise your personality over some dumb guys. patience is key, a guy will fall head over heels for you when you least expect it.
2007-05-07 17:20:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a tomboy-ish type of girl. But it seems that I'm always that girl that becomes one of the guys.....
You just answered your own question.
By the way...you're creepy. Why do you want to be a boy. Transexual?
2007-05-07 17:15:49 · answer #7 · answered by Austin. 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no youre just you dear
my best friend in the world was a tomboy with 4 brothers and we were different but i still love her.....the days she got married she looked so beautiful and she still writes once in awhile but havent seen her since 74!!
there is someone for everyone!!!
2007-05-07 17:15:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sound like since they are seeing you as one of the guys they are also seeing you as off limits. It's up to you to make sure that they know you are interested in them on a level higher then friendship.
2007-05-07 17:19:05 · answer #9 · answered by asguard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are turned on by what they see first. Are you hot? Do you dress to impress. I am not saying to dress like a tramp, but you do need to highlight your assets. It sounds superficial , but it is reality. Guys like funny, friendly girls, but what first attracts them is the face and body. t**ts, a***sss, then talent. In that order. Glam it up girl!! Good luck.
2007-05-07 17:21:47 · answer #10 · answered by BROWNIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋