Don't they see women as human beings with true feelings?
2007-05-07 07:56:14 · 27 answers · asked by possessed Regan 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some men do not know the value of women. They even think women are useless. But let me tell you the truth that those people are nothing but an undesireble element.
2007-05-07 08:07:18 · answer #1 · answered by Nicefriend 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its a age thing, or a time of life thing.
At 9 I thought of women as mom
At 10 they were changing
By 11 the thinking went out of it and Playboy and sex were as far as the woman equation went.
By 18 they suddenly wanted me and I still didn't stop to think
I guess about 21 when someone finely managed to leave me I stopped and thought about it for a week or two.
I don't know when I realized women were people too, but ya just got to look at the person your with and ask yourself "how grown up are they. Or if your willing to get over there short comings?
2007-05-07 15:15:09 · answer #2 · answered by Ben 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Belive it or not there are alot of woman out there in the world that are looking for men that just want sex I know this from personal experiences. But for the guys that get with a girl and just lie to get some well sex they just doing what they do best and if a girl fall for it I think its just life cause people lie but females do the same thing I bet even more so than men women just dint get caught as easy
2007-05-07 15:04:26 · answer #3 · answered by mochadda 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sorry to answer your question with a question, but why can't women just have sex for sex sakes and not look at it as being used, and instead look at it as helping one another with a common need, like men do?
Sex is fun and feels great. It's free and can't be taxed. Have fun with it. The only way you should feel like you are being used is if you make it clear that you only want sex if the person has long term feelings for you, and then he tells you he does, but all he really wants is sex, and it's a lie.
If you start out with a guy with having sex not for long term feelings, but to feel good, you might be surprised how this ends up attracting a man to you. Getting sex out of the way can actually open a man up to a relationship.
2007-05-07 15:04:20 · answer #4 · answered by inquisitor-one 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why do these women allow the men to "use" them so quickly into a relationship, before they know a man's true feelings for them?
2007-05-07 15:03:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men think of only two things; beer and sex. Thinking beyond that level is not usual for them. It also makes it much easier to lead them around by the nose and completely dominate them if you so desire. I am a man but have raised (and been raised by) six darling daughters (half of them adopted and half biological). It matters not where they come from as they are going to make your life a living hell; but you grow to enjoy the pain and chaos. I do worry occasionally that the government is going make me buy a license for a weapon of mass destruction or something.
2007-05-07 15:12:40 · answer #6 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because they care so much about them selves. Alls there thinking is whats best for me me me me. The woman, her feelings and everything else never even occured to them because once again they were only thinking about Themself. A lot of them it doesnt even seem like they are that way on purpose thats just the way there mind works.
2007-05-07 15:06:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cant speak for the majority of guys, because there are a lot of man-whores out there. But, coming from a gentleman, its the female species that has made it that way. For one thing, if a girl is willing to have sex with me right away, I usually loose all respect for her before or after it happens. Guys will only treat you the way you treat yourself. Dont let yourself be used for sex, instead try dating and getting to know someone over time before you commit to them sexually. Its how you weed out the guys that are just giving you attention for sex. Hope you understand. Try to keep a relationship with them for like a month before you sleep together. If he's using you, obviously he isn't going to stick around.
2007-05-07 15:12:40 · answer #8 · answered by Justin 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No they dont.Most guys do it,because they feel that if they told you all they want is sex.You probably wouldnt do it.
Most men like thaT are jerks anyway.
I have had several one night stands and I have always been honest about my intentions.And I have lost some real pretty girls for being honest.But at least when I see them out.They talk to me and we are like friends.
2007-05-07 15:21:35 · answer #9 · answered by kenneth h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To guys sex is about a quick orgasm. To women it's about emotions so they just don't realize the difference.
2007-05-07 15:10:18 · answer #10 · answered by MissWong 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋