Especially the guys... what could a girl say to you and do to make you miss her and wanna see her again? Girls... any suggestions for me that work? I wanna be mysterious get his attention at the same time so he can't get me outta his mind! Please don't tell me this isn't possible! i know it's impossible to MAKE someone like you but there must be things to help it along?
2007-05-07 07:53:45 · 16 answers · asked by Mistclears 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't wanna say anything outright thats sexual cause im not easy and dont wanna give that impression. He told me he loves it when girls are mysterious.
2007-05-07 08:02:11 · update #1
One thing you can do is stop playing the "mysterious" game. Most guys hate that. Be real...we're simpled minded and don't have a lot of tolerance for mind games from women.
Be very careful what you do in trying to get guys to be hooked on you. Some guys can take this to a whole level that would scare you. I don't know what you're looking for in a relationship, but it's usually not what the guys are looking for. Just take it slow and be yourself. If you start putting out fake vibes it could have some very negative results.
2007-05-07 07:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know the thing about men, is on some scale small or large we all live a double life. From having two wives on different sides of the world, to having two girl friends at once, to just having a dark side we explore online and keep from other people. Except are thinking is to conceal these things. Because we won't be accepted or we'll hurt someone. Anyway, listen to what I'm going to tell you. Because 99% of us have some hidden double life, we don't like mystery, we're suspicious of mystery. Don't try to be mysterious just say things like, I have surprise for you next time I see you, or I'm going to do something to you that will blow your mind. Keep us interested with promises of adventures to come.
2007-05-07 08:03:48 · answer #2 · answered by joe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, for me, I have been married for fifteen years now, so back then, LOL, fifteen years ago, what I did and what I said was, I was myself, I wore really nice clothes because I was meeting him for the first time, and so were my parents and they had a choice in what clothes I should wear, and they were nice, and they made me feel good about myself, and I had a wonderful attitude about myself and good morals and self confidence!
JMO, but to help the relationship more I would say just be yourself!
Wear something sexy and some sexy perfume, and put your perfume in his suitcase or on his pillow, or wear his shirts when he comes home from work and have your scent on his shirt, that will NEVER make him stop thinking about the whole day and the whole week!
2007-05-07 08:57:42 · answer #3 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My thoughts are not so much 'saying'. Most men think women talk too much anyway. "say" with expressions. For example - always wear your favorite cologne and make sure some of it 'gets on him or on his clothing' (chirt collar) That lingering smell will remind him of you. If you wear nail polish and have nice nails, make sure he 'sees' them. Touch the side of his face, or his ear, kiss his neck and walk away. These are mysterous little ways that a man will remember you. If you can cook, always prepare something nice for him and a small 'take home snack'. If you can really cook - he will remember your food. Buy him a nice tie for no reason -or some other small token. He will appreciate that you are thinking of him. There are many little things (send him a car) that you can do so that your man will remember you and miss you. These are just some. I hope you can use them. I have tried them and honey - they work. One time I took his car and filled it up with gas and had the car washed, and polished. Once I wrote a song for him and had it recorded and gave it to him. Good luck!
2007-05-07 08:03:24 · answer #4 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try and focus the conversation on them. People are happy when they get to talk about themselves and usually guys are the ones that have to work hard on keeping conversations alive and such. Act interested in him (but not overly) and he'll be like "wow she's so cool." Then once you leave he'll realize that he doesn't know much of anything about you because you barely talked about yourself and will definitely be intrigued. Also never be too available. Make sure you have your own life going for you and your own plans but you don't necessarily need to say what. He'll definitely want to be a part of your plans and want to know more.
2007-05-07 08:00:23 · answer #5 · answered by sym pathetic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Instead of talking do the walking. Let him read your body language. Maybe a rub with your elbow, any physical body contact. This will definitely put you on his mind and seem mysterious.
2007-05-07 08:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by Glamorous Unicorn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't give 2 much info. that's a woman's major mistake. we talk about everything from past relationships to pms, to our girlfriends men. continue to be cute and flirty, but not phony with it. and intelligent conversation is always a winner. he'll see that u have beauty brains and that ur fun!!! u can't go wrong girl. good luck.
2007-05-07 08:04:36 · answer #7 · answered by Audrean L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, please don't bother and just be yourself. If you REALLY like him, ask him out, if he refuses, then move on. You'll find a nice guy to be happy with soon enough! Being yourself and accepting the other person just as they are is the best way to start any lasting, healthy relationship.
2007-05-07 08:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by Cinthia R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk too much.
Give that coy smile.
Don't laugh too much at jokes, but give a small chuckle.
Don't give direct answers, just say, maybe, or I'll think about it.
2007-05-07 07:57:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok i'm not sayin it works mind u but most of d time it does: i usually try 2 ignore dem nd makin dem feel unimportant 2 me and if dey rly lyk me nd want 2 spk 2 me he would keep on sendin msgs ect...if dat doesnt work den just make sure dat whenever you're nxt 2 him smile nd give d impression dat u're a fun-2-b-wit girl cos loadz of guys h8 gloomy nd boring girls... if dat doesnt work den i guess i'd go 4 d hardcore method i.e. kick him in d balls nd yell "oiiii i lyk u !!!" lol but dats desper8 nd i dunno if it works since i neva tried it lmao... i hope its been of sum kind of help =]
Good Luck m8 :)
2007-05-07 08:03:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋