Hello everyone.
My daughter is 20 years of age.She is a full time manager at KFC mind you she is a student studying cosmo something and I am a bit concerned she drinks like a beast with her boyfriend and I just found out he is 32 years of age and smokes a dearly amount of pot, Now my daughter has a few medical issue's (meaning she is a bit delayed ect..) and I have approached her in a proper manner and she responded to me in a foul manner.I have prayed to the lord several times and I am very hurt by this situation.Also I did not snoop through her stuff but I found a folded paper on the ground in the kitchen I picked it up and found it was a positve pregnancy test with a letter from that loser boyfriend..He stated he did not want the child and she better protect herself and to get rid of it..How can I reach out to my loving daughter without pushing her away.? Should I pound on his door and tell him like it is with the letter? I feel he is taking advantage because of her med issues.
2007-05-07 07:10:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Wow, to be in that situation! I am assuming she still lives at home? I would sit down with her, let her know that you are there for her, and love her no matter what, that you will support her with any discision she makes. My little sister was in a similar situation, and I had a talk with her about her loser Boyfriend, but instead of telling her that I did not like him, or knew bad things about him, I told her that if he treats her well, and will support her in any discision she makes, then I am happy for her to be with him. She broke down and told me all the stuff he had done to her...... because she did not feel like she was being attacked, or the discision she made to be with him was being judged, she opened up and accepted the love I had for her. Hopefully she will see that you are the one that cares for her, not him, and turn around! Keep praying.
2007-05-07 07:40:44 · answer #1 · answered by vega_five 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is really critical you must do something as her mother if you do not you may feel guilty later i think you should talk to her face to face you must make her listen to you and she will realize it is for her advantage if you could not i say find some one she really listen to like a Friend or a priest or try to use the letter way i mean write her a letter if she is deep inside afraid or worried i think she she would read it but it is not advisable that mush i think you must talk to her face to face tell her you will be there no matter what and that you love her and really care that is why she must listen to you
2007-05-07 14:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by tam d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is an adult. you need to treat her as such and let her live her life. shes not to delayed if shes a manager. you need to butt out and mind your business and let her make her mistakes and learn from them before you push her right out of your life completely
2007-05-07 14:15:53 · answer #3 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋