now I am in love with my frnd In his case why do I felt that I know him since long time back. I never felt like this before. I would like to propose that I am in love with him but hr is one problem tht I m 3 years elder thn him …n many times I said him indirectly…..tht im loving him….n I think he also feel d same as wht im but he is not saying out bcoz im elder …
Do u think that age creat a problem in love??? and i really wn 2 marry him .Do he accept me n my love ? will he marry him?do their n my parents agree for our marriage?Plz help me n hw to express my love to him........
2007-05-07 05:44:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
friend and boyfriend is two different things believe me. try a relationship with him first!
might i add that it took me 10minutes to read what you were trying to ask, i figured it out but you might want to use spellcheck. anybody else probably wouldnt have bothered
2007-05-07 05:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by Jahpson 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
OMG you're thinking about marriage before even dating the guy??? He will think you're a psycho if you tell him you want to marry him at this point. The age thing shouldn't be a problem if you two "click", I'm five years older than my husband and it's just fine. Try dating first and see how things go from there. Then you can guage how the parents feel about the situation, and move on to the next step! Good luck, I hope both of you will be very happy.
2007-05-07 05:53:20 · answer #2 · answered by SodaLicious 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, let me juss tell you that this isnt' gunna be easy. What you need to do is tell him. Tell him right away that you are in love with him, becuaze if he dont feel the same way, it'll hurt 2 times as bad if you stay longer and then break up. You are falling really hard for him, and he needs to know that very soon. If he rejects the thought of marriage, then at least he knows how you feel, and maybe you 2 cud work it out. and the whole parent situation on if they'll agree or not, if you 2 are really in love and meant for eachtoerh, then it wont matter wut they think, and they'll learn to accept this whole thing. it's really not that big of an age difference anyways
2007-05-07 05:52:24 · answer #3 · answered by haleyknutson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it depends on if you're both over 18... If so, then age doesn't matter at all. If he feels the same way, then let him know how you feel. If he doesn't feel the same then it will change your relationship forever. You either go for broke, or you don't. It's up to you. However, I wouldn't go at him with how much you're in love with him right away or you could scare him. Just tell him you feel more than friendship and see where it goes from there...
2007-05-07 06:00:26 · answer #4 · answered by Marianne D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
should ask person first if feel the same way then can both dicuss together why should u have to do all the hard work talkin etc dosent hehave a say in this 2. i wouldnt worry about age difference should be the least to consider especially if cant even start the conversation about being inlove. get a friend to send i u cannnot face it
2007-05-07 05:59:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello my friend,
Actually, real love doesn't take age into account. If there is an opportunity, just take it. May be you can try ask him some questions on the age problem and discuss with him. He might be willing to discuss with you if he really loves you.
Hope you will get your true love soon.
Warmest regards,
Karen
2007-05-07 06:10:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u rit lik u r 5 that wud mak him 2 u cant get mrred at that age. Grow up first. No one wants to marry such an incompetant person.
2007-05-07 05:53:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a little young. If you really like him, express to him that you want to be bf/gf rather than just friends. Let that relationship blossom before you talk about marriage.
2007-05-07 05:54:27 · answer #8 · answered by Mom of 4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont see a problem with age at all but the law does.My bf is 19 and hes currently sitting in jail because he was with me and im 14,but i will still wait for him until he gets out.
2007-05-07 05:51:57 · answer #9 · answered by Daniel Hillhouse`s Girl! 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Wow, barely understandable.
If you use firefox it will help you with your spelling and grammar.
From what I can barely interpret, it sounds like you two are not even DATING yet.
Start with dating, and dating exclusively, before thinking about marriage.
2007-05-07 05:53:55 · answer #10 · answered by Terri 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋