my bf of 3 months is a doctor. i dont see him enough because he's always busy with work.
i am a pretty girl and lots of guys want to take me out.
i cant sit home on a saturday night and not do anything.
most of my gfs are married.
2007-05-07 05:12:31 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it's wrong. You either break up with him and find someone who is around to give you the attention you want OR you get a grip! If the worst thing about this guy is he works savign peoples lives and all, send him my way. I'll gladly stay home alone.
2007-05-07 05:19:08 · answer #1 · answered by chickey_soup 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.... it is extremely wrong.....look if you are not getting the attention you want then you need to let him know.... give him a chance to fix it..... If you love him you will cherish the time you get no matter how little or much it is..... If you do not love him or you feel you need more attention then you two need to part ways and then you are free to date someone that may be able to give you more attention....I have heard this alot and it is very disturbing that anyone would even think that this is OK.... Look you are with the one you are with by choice....either love them for who they are and what they bring or leave....to cheat because you want the best of both worlds is not right and it never will be no matter who is doing the cheating.....either you love him or you leave him do not hurt him by cheating because you need the attention....leave him and then go find all the attention that you need.....
2007-05-07 05:24:25 · answer #2 · answered by Dennis J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea cheating is bad. You probably should break up with him if you don't get enough attention. But if you can live with it this guy is a doctor he probably is looking for some stability in his life like a wife. And you are looking for a good time. You two might be on a different page.
2007-05-07 05:22:09 · answer #3 · answered by Shane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong to cheat on your man. Since you are not married to him, break things off with him and date other men...
Why are you still hanging on? Because of the fact that he's doctor? If that be the case, sit and wait. But if you know in your heart that you cannot comitt to him then go on with your life and don't waste his time or his feelings.
Have you talked with him about your considerations? Being a doctor he would be busy all the time but when you are together you should make the best of the time.
2007-05-07 05:21:28 · answer #4 · answered by lwheavenlyangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you sit home on a Saturday night and not do anything? What's wrong with that? Get a good book, surf the internet, rent some movies, go out with one of your girlfriends. And you're wanting to cheat on your boyfriend why? Because he's devoted to his work? Girl, you are way too f**ked up to be dating a doctor, anyway. Unless he's a psychiatrist.
2007-05-07 05:19:02 · answer #5 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be in a relationship if you don't want the committment... Maybe you just need to put it on the table that you need more than your BF can offer you right now, with that you can agree to date others until your relationship gets more serious.
Always be honest before hand and don't want until it is too late to talk about it, if you cheat and he finds out, you will end your relationship if that isn't what you want, try talking. Communication is a great way to solve these problems.
2007-05-07 05:18:51 · answer #6 · answered by Interestedinknowing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is worng. If you want to go out then tell him to take you out. If you are really thinking about cheating then you need to end it with him. My boyfriend is a truck driver and is gone for 3 weeks at a time. NEVER once has cheating ran across my mind. But then again I've bben with him for almost 3 years. I love him. And would never cheat on him!!
2007-05-07 05:21:36 · answer #7 · answered by Tuty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok you have to seriously think whether you want to carry on this relationship, because it dosnt sounds liek you are getting enough out of it. If it doesnt make you happy, then make sure your guy knows about it. Just because he doesnt give you enough attention doesnt make it right to cheat on him though. Its totally unfair on him, as its his job which is preventing you being together at times, not that hes mistreating you in the relationship. Dont cheat on him, get out of it if thats what will make you happier at the end of the day!
2007-05-07 05:20:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just break up with him if he isn't putting as much into the relationship as you are? I mean, being a doctor does require a lot of time, and that doesn't mean you should go out and cheat. If he's that absent in your relationship, find another one and let him go.
2007-05-07 05:18:31 · answer #9 · answered by Yvette S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is ALWAYS best in any relationship!!Period!! Is he cheating on you? Even if he was, It would still be wrong to cheat on him!!! Your the one who choose to be with a doctor,That was YOUR decision!! Knock off the childish rationalization and grow up!! If you can't live with the decision that you made,Then at least be Honest enough to break off the relationship, Before you move on to someone else!! He deserves that much at least!!!
2007-05-07 05:25:01 · answer #10 · answered by master_escrimador 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋