she cries when asked to do simple things like clean up or go to bed,she'd mean to me, her father and mostly big brother. At night, she have dreams of fussing at someone and or doing things with her hands like she's holding something. im at the breaking point and loose my temper easly and sometimes regret having her. I lover her dearly but i need help!
2007-05-07 04:54:02 · 13 answers · asked by DIONNE J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'd cry if she were my child, because I'd realize that someone has hurt her. I'd hold her and tell her how much I love her.
I'd also seek help for her and cut off whoever's been babysitting her.
To read you've regretted her, makes my heart sink.
Seek help for yourself as well, before you hurt her too.
EDIT:
When you get proof on abuse...DO press charges and KEEP her away from perp... always.
2007-05-07 05:05:44 · answer #1 · answered by Bonnie Lynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
night terrors can effect children of all ages. If she is not getting enough sleep at night than that could be the reason she is so grouchy and hard headed during the day. My daughter is like that sometimes and I make her take a nap because the is her way of telling me she is tired. After her nap she is a different child. Also this could be a more serious issue. My son has special needs and so I know a lot about certain behaviors. She could be having seizures at night while sleeping. Certain children react differently to seizures. Some children laugh, some children stare off , some children toss about in their sleep and cry. I would talk with her pediatrician about the concerns you have. One other thing and sorry to go on here but it could be a food allergy. Some children act out when they are reacting to a food allergy or even out door allergy's. I know my son does. Hopes this helps.
2007-05-07 05:04:36 · answer #2 · answered by renee125 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the others are right there could be abuse..........but as a mother of three I have noticed that each child has seemed to go through a period where they pushed me. Nothing I asked of them resulted in anything but temper tantrums. One to the point of beating her head againist the floor and I had to restrain her to prevent her from hurting herself. Eventually once they realized I wasn't going to budge (ie I am more stubborn than they were) and that I still loved them they quit. You have to make her clean her room if you tell her too. You cannot let her get her way...........but you must choose your battles carefully. Does she act out at school? Is it something her brother has done? Does she feel like you love him more than her? Probably so if she is always being reprimanded; not to say she doesn't deserve it? Children do not understand their feelings like we do. They cannot evaluate each situation. So you have to do this for her. Ask questions, aske her hoe she feels about certain things. She may need one on one time with you and her father.
2007-05-07 05:07:06 · answer #3 · answered by mysteriousnbeautiful 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not normal for a 5 year old. I would say sometime or another she has been abused. I would talk to her a little to try and get an idea of what it could be. I also would seek medical attention for her. Sounds like something really bad has happened to her. You may think that is not possible because you watch her like a hawk. Believe me, it can happen right under you nose and it is usually someone close to the family.
2007-05-07 05:12:04 · answer #4 · answered by shyone 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first dream seems to infer that you miss your father and though you don't intend to purposely meet him anytime soon, you feel that should an incident or accident) occur, it would not be such a bad thing. The second dream seems to infer that you fear for your mother more than you fear for yourself or your partner. Perhaps there is some sort of link with your father to this dream but it is unclear. You fathers' death may have been caused by a car accident (just guessing in reference to shards of light) and you and mother were also in the car and survived. Without proper information, an interpretation is based on symbols rather than actual events in a dream.
2016-05-17 09:59:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, address the "mostly big brother" part. What is that? You cannot be "friends" with your child. You love your child like a parent. Your child is your life. We always want to see our children safe. In order for a child to feel safe around you, the child must respect you. Your daughter cannot respect you if she feels you are on the same level as she is. You must establish boundaries. This does not mean you cannot continue what it is you do with your daughter. Please continue. What it means is you must change the way you look at what it is you do. You cannot be best friends with someone else's 5 year old, would you?
2007-05-07 09:24:12 · answer #6 · answered by swilson_lewis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your daughter might be having night terrors...The night terrors usually comes from some thing traumatic happening to her, such as, the lost of a friend, changes in the household, new baby, etc etc..The list can go on and on...You should speak your pediatrician about your concerns
2007-05-07 05:07:33 · answer #7 · answered by plumprump26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak to ur doctor about this. There could be something much deeper going on inside of her little head than you really are aware of. I know its tough but dont throw in the towel with her, shes ur baby girl. =]
Good luck
2007-05-07 04:59:53 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Yes Im K.A.B's Mommy :)♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get help for her, either she's watching things she's not supposed to (scary movies, parents fighting, problems at kindergarten?) or maybe someone is harrassing her? or she's just spoiled rotten. You should really take her to a therapist.
2007-05-07 05:00:18 · answer #9 · answered by Bribaby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She needs firm discipline. If she acts out she must be ignored. She needs be physically restrained if she is lashing out. She may need a strong spanking on the behind to get your message across to her. In any case her behavior can not be allowed to go on. It must be stopped.
2007-05-07 05:06:43 · answer #10 · answered by Toosense2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋