Do u think that age creat a problem in love?tht I m 3 years elder thn my loved one?

Question

I'm pretty traditional girl, My problem is that I am extremely feel nervous n shy it is just bcoz of d atmosphere whr I m brought up and I can not talk to any stranger …… even generally do not start talking to my friends spontaneously. I talk to people only when they start talking to me. But I can be friendly once the person becomes my friend but it vll b for only short period……. No wonder I do not have any boy friend and I have never been able to express my feelings to any one …….I feel a few of my friends have shown their interest in me but I could not communicate n it is just bcoz. I am not @ all interested in making friends or any other relationships with them…

But I talk 2 one stranger he became a frnd through online while chatting daily thn we became very close … n I do not know y n @ d sm time I felt he is d one who I know him very well n tht he is person whom do I am waiting for ????????? even im accepted him as very good friend of mine by seeing his way of approach & sharing the things... but in his case why I am not. And I think it hd happened just bcoz we wr chatting daily n bcm good frnds when I cm 2 know tht he belongs to my caste n everything sounds good about him slowly we both were become close frnds ……and once we met to know personally… only once bcoz he is wrking in Mumbai so , thr is no possibility of meeting . But now I am in love with my frnd In his case why do I felt that I know him since long time back. I never felt like this before. I would like to propose to my friend that I am in love with him but hr is one problem tht I m 3 years elder thn him ……..n many times I said him indirectly…..tht im loving him….n I think he also feel d same wht im but he is not saying out bcoz im elder ……
Do u think that age creat a problem in love???

Answer 1

Wow, you are thinking way too hard about this. Age can be a problem if you are 20+ years older than him. 3 years is nothing.....why would you think that? My wife is 6 years younger than me and there is no issue's at all. In the past I have dated girls that were up to 5 years older than me and still the same thing...no issue's. If you truly connect with someone then a mere 3 years isn't even worth talking about. Sounds like you need some confidence in yourself, people pick up on this and it will definitely help you. Being nervous and shy is not a easy thing to shake off, but you must try. I am sure you are worried about what might happen if you get let down, but I would be more worried about not trying anything at all.

Answer 2

i was in a relationship for 4 years with a wonderful man who was 4 years younger than me. we had so much fun together and we really did bring out the best in each other until the end. at the end i was ready for marriage and children and he just wasnt. the breakup was hard and did turn ugly and i still hope that one day we can run into each other and be friendly. i moved on and met a men 2 years younger than me we are now married with a daughter and i wouldnt trade the life i have now for anything. so no i dont think its age that causes the problem i feel its the maturity level of both individuals involved.

Answer 3

i'm 34 yrs old and my husband of four yrs is 30 yrs old. we are jointly for 7 years. I easily have a 14 yrs old daughter from a prior dating, and he has under no circumstances been married before and have no newborn. yet our dating is getting even extra suitable than before and we adore and look after one extra prefer extra suitable than ever. we are making plans to have one extra infant to characteristic to our already growing to be family contributors. there'll constantly be some enormous or small subject in each and every dating. existence is mostly a undertaking,and it occurs once you least anticipate it ,yet we are going to waiting to stand it and bargains with it. in case you're fairly love her, love will triumph over your worry. permit your safeguard down, it is purely 3 years diverse.

Answer 4

3 years is not a problem if you dont let it be a problem --- if you care for each other then you can work it out ---- best wishes