For someone who coaxed u into having sex while u were drunk (even though u slapped him and tried to push him away) to truly be sorry? He was drunk and very high. He apologized the very next morning and bought me the morning after pill.
I go back and forth on this myself.
2007-05-07 03:56:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what does it mean if u overheard him telling someone he loved u?
2007-05-07 03:56:34 · update #1
I passed out.
2007-05-07 04:10:16 · update #2
Could the "I love her" crap be just a confusion of his guilt and high emotions.
2007-05-07 04:11:08 · update #3
As a rule no-means no. but as you said you were both under the influence so yes I beleave the young man could be truly sorry for his actions. The catch is to not let your self be caught in that position again. You are responsible for your safety--I am not saying that any woman asked to be taken advantage of.raped, and or molested-but men as a rule think with their 2nd brain and it is up to us to teach them better --Some will learn -some will not-- be safe--somabody loves you
2007-05-07 04:07:48 · answer #1 · answered by searching 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you overheard him saying that. if you were coaxed into having sex, what is there left to say. He was trying to force you to go along with something you did'nt want to do. When people are drunk they express another side of them nobody has ever seen before. I would not pay no mind to it. If he loved you he would of never done that stuff. He is only making up for the mistake that he did to you on that night.
2007-05-07 11:03:52 · answer #2 · answered by Daizy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is why i will never date a drugged out loser again!! They are more applicable to cheat (the old saying: I was drunk, I didnt know what was going on) Ugh! How naive can a girl be.....I would personally not be with someone like that. What about some other girl while hes drunk and high??? Watch out ladies....But, no.... it takes two to tango hunny! You cant put all the blame him...what were u doing while hes puttin it in? Come on.....
2007-05-07 11:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iam so sorry to hear of your ordeal please get to the nearest S.T.D. clinic (as a precaution if you value you your body.) then put it all down to experience.. some guys, are bullies wanting there way sex should be happily concented not forced on to someone....please girls try and keep your own council if you are in danger , scream , yell, even call a cab, or alert staff of the place where you are they will get the police.. but, don't be scared these are weak men (sorry i don't mean the whole universe those who can't EXCEPT THE WORD ''NO''as they could be charged with possible RAPE or RAPE then we know what that means
2007-05-07 11:39:28 · answer #4 · answered by tella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was as intoxicated as you say then maybe it is possible for his actions to be slightly fuzzy. But if he remembers everything then that means that his brain was conscious to his actions. I matters not that he bought you a morning after pill because that doesn't take away the night before. This one is up to you it depends on how you feel about it. Sorry but I can't answer this one. Just remember: you can be sorry for doing something but that doesn't change the fact that it happened.
2007-05-07 11:06:05 · answer #5 · answered by KID DESTINY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C'mon Steph...are you serious? "He apologized and bought me the morning after pill". Do you know how ridiculous that sounds?
It isn't possible that the definition of rape could apply here, is it? Good grief!! I'm a guy and I think this dude's scum.
And no, it doesn't matter if you overheard him tell someone that he loves you.
Sorry, but you asked.
2007-05-07 11:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by boomerdude 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure he might be sorry, but that doesn't change the fact that you didn't want to and that's the problem, he couldn't accept your answer and kept pushing, kinda scary...what will he do next? Sounds like the little brat kid who throws a tantrum when he didn't get what he wanted...this is probably not someone whom you want to associate with.
2007-05-07 11:05:44 · answer #7 · answered by steveo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm wow...i guess he could b truly sorry. We all do stupid stuff while drunk but jf he is a big enough person 2 say "Hey Im Sorry I Did that" Then I think He may b sorry.
2007-05-07 11:02:31 · answer #8 · answered by summerlovin4eva345 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple,,,, he loves u,,,, know the matter is do you love him n want to be with him or do you wanna press charges for him raping u,,,,,,
because once u said no it is rape,,, that is in a court of law,,,,,,
so baby u think about it n do what feel like,,,,, n way i dnt htink u minded because if u did u would already be classing it as rape,, n since ur not i assume u have some feelings for him but just didnt wanna do it wiht him yet,,, so jus forget it n u two get together,,,
n e way good luck
2007-05-07 11:04:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel that if you accept this apology, you will be allowing this to happen over again and labeled as easy. and any person that does this has very little respect for any one.
good luck
2007-05-07 11:13:47 · answer #10 · answered by Ken R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋