what are the chances of me and my girlfriend making it after Im out of school and she has 2 years left there? We have been dating for 1 and 5 months, what are the chances and how do improve them?
2007-05-07 03:55:29 · 12 answers · asked by rebel12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No one can predict the outcome of a relationship. If this is something you both want to continue, you will manage to work things out. It's possible it will become too hard and you will be in different places in your lives. This can happen to any two people at any time in their lives. All relationships take work and both people willing to work at it.
2007-05-07 04:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by J F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, just the fact that you are having to ask this question, makes me wonder about the committment between you. But, let's just assume that everything is great and you're absolutely crazy about each other (because that's how it supposed to be) Your chances are good. why shouldn't they be? There are many relationships that survived temporary separations, especially if one of you is off preparing a future for the two of you. I was still in college when my boyfriend took an out of state job. Months passed between us being able to see each other. And that was before email and cell phones!! We've been married 27 years!!
If you are feeling insecure about leaving her at school, sit and have an honest, candid talk about it. Don't get mad if she decides to be completely honest and tells you that she's not ready for a heavy committment. It's better to find out now or to have her cheat on you behind your back. It will hurt, but honesty and trust is the backbone of any good relationship. Even if she tells you she's not sure about this relationship...LET HER GO. In this case, if it's meant to be, she will find her way back to you. Also, if you are the one venturing out into the world, it is a prime time for meeting new people and establishing new relationships. You don't want to be held back by a relationship that is doomed. Just be honest with each other and the right decision will be made. Good Luck.
2007-05-07 04:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the chance. You just have to stay committed. My brother and his girlfriend met in high school, and are still together today. She is in her last year of college, he is working. They live in the same city now, but did have a long distance relationship for 4 years when he was in college. You just have to know if she is really and truly the one you want to spend the rest of your life with, or at least be with her for now. If you're going off to college, then you need to be honest with yourself, and not get involved with any girls in college. Make sure they know you have a girlfriend back home, and see her every chance you get, call her, e-mail her, give her feedback on what you are doing. Bring her to campus a few times, let her meet your new friends, etc. Just keep her involved in your life as much as possible, and expect her to do the same. You can't have her at home, and play the single guy at college. That won't work. If you need a reminder of her, give her a promise ring, that way you'll always have that to look at when you're thinking of doing something you shouldn't. Good luck.
2007-05-07 04:04:39 · answer #3 · answered by tinaroonie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love each other and work on your relationship there is a chance that you will make it.
I dated a boy through high=school. He graduated 2 years ahead of me and went to college 2 years away. I also went to a different college for 3.5 years. He graduated as a Mechanical Engineer and I married him. We talked on the phone nightly and saw one another EVERY weekend.
We've been married for 12 years. (we did date for 6 years and 11 months b/c it we were so young when we started dating)
Two kids later and I've never REGRETTED it. I love him to pieces.
2007-05-07 04:04:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love your girl friend then 2 years arent going to make a difference. I mean you are going to be working and she will be going to school and after those hours what is the problem? You still have a chance from the way i see it it isnt any problem.
hope this helps : )
2007-05-07 04:01:07 · answer #5 · answered by sydney bristow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that is all up to how much you want it to work out!...
I meen if you really love her and she loves you then there shouldnt be no problem.. but as soon as one person isnt happy then it all tumbles down... Id say there is a good chance if you guys work at it and talk it out.. and if you give her a lil space and both are honest..
what i meen is... you cant be calling her all hours and saying
"What are you doing" where were you i called u didnt answer..
dont make her think you dont trust her anymore...
thats the one thing i hated with my bf when i went up north to my moms for a couple months... he used to call and act like he didnt trust me anymore.. but hey i came back once i thought things were gonna end and now were together and happier then b4.. so if you guys work and talk it out things will be great...
2007-05-07 04:01:26 · answer #6 · answered by lilmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two really love each other, than everything should be fine. Communication, honestly and trust have to be there in the relationship if it's going to work. Communication is going to have to be key and so is trust. She's gonna have to know that you will be faithful to her, and for you the same thing.
2007-05-07 04:04:39 · answer #7 · answered by thathockeychick23 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends of how much you guys are into eachother really. the fact that you guys have been going for almost a year and a half is heaps good to start with; esp at your age. its harder for you cos u are ona different level to her and she still has her education stuff to worry about but as long as you guys keep seeing enough of eachother and maintain that "spark" i dont c y things cant last. try not to worry about how long a relationship will last, and just enjoy being in it rite now.
2007-05-07 04:02:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE . JUST PUT YOUR MIND
TO IT AND DO NOT GIVE UP HOPE. U NEED TO
HAVE TRUST IN ONE ANOTHER. IF THE RELATIO-
NSHIP IS MEANT TO BE THEN IT WILL BE,,,,,,,
IF YOU WILL BE GOING OFF TO COLLEGE JUST
IMAGINE HOW SHE IS FEELING? JUST THINK
WHAT IS RUNNING THROUGH HER HEAD?
HOW SHE WISHES YOU WOULD NOT GO OFF
TO COLLEGE. ALL YOU CAN DO IS KEEP THE
COMMUNICATION LINE OPEN BETWEEN THE
BOTH OF U. AND BE HONEST WITH ONE
ANOTHER........... WHAT EVER THE OUTCOME
I WISH THE BOTH OF YOU THE BEST OF LUCK
AND MANY YEARS OF HAPPINESS TOGETHER,
2007-05-07 04:18:05 · answer #9 · answered by Rosemary M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the first place, there's no need to ask this question if you're assured you two will love each other despite the odds. loving someone is being ready to let go when the need arises.
TRUST and it will LAST. :)
2007-05-07 04:08:44 · answer #10 · answered by khylx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋