avoid putting yourself in tempting situations. if you are of age to go to clubs and frequent them always go with your partner. enjoy the attention your partner gives you and give them plenty of attention as well. no matter how much you love each other the attention of others is always a nice confirmation that you are still attractive to others but you need to keep it at that. just attention and don't let it go any further. remember that one night of satisfaction out side of your relationship could end it for you and almost always is never worth it. you lose alot even if by miracle you stay together you will always have it between you.
2007-05-07 04:05:15
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answered by jezbnme 6
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Well you can start by dealing with problems that come up rather than sweeping them under the rug.
I believe many people's unhappiness is a result of problems not dealt with or not dealt with properly. Don't just say yes just to end an arguement. Another big one is don't say yes just because you assume if you say no the other person will get mad. Don't take the right to react away from the other person. My ex did this and I hated it. It usually resulted in him bringing up past issues 6 months or more down the road when I was trying to discuss something he did that hurt me.
If he had given me the chance to react however I would have reacted and we would have dealt with it then it wouldn't be an issue 6 months later when I had no clue as to what he was talking about. Personally I think he used it as an excuse to get out of dealing with what was in front of him at the time.
Respect the other person as an individual and not someone to be controlled. Just because you have joined your life together doesn't mean the other person shouldn't have an inividual life. However, this doesn't mean this individual life should be kept from you but it's ok to have your own likes and dislikes that are not necissarily shared with the spouse - just don't keep them a secret.
Don't put yourself out where the temptation is if your not strong enough to resist it.
2007-05-07 11:06:18
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answered by ? 4
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You keep your zipper up.
You don't have personal conversations with the opposite sex.
You don't go out and get drunk.
Or hang out with those that do.
You are never alone with a person of the opposite sex.
You make your best friend your spouse.
You realize that hurting your spouse would kill you.
You are serious about commitment and if its not working you work on it until it does.
You think more of the other person than you do of yourself.
Remember its easier to say no than to say yes to an affair.
2007-05-07 11:05:27
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answered by justa 7
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A committed relationship means you do not cheat.
2007-05-07 11:01:42
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answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7
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is this a REAL Question??
If you REALLY care about the person and WANT it to work and last... you have no interest in cheating.
I've been with the same man for 7 years... and have never had any desire to cheat or do anything like that at all.
2007-05-07 11:01:10
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answered by Nicole 3
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Easy. Just look at your relationship. If you want it to stay that way, then don't screw up. Don't let other people get involved in the relationship, and keep your mind straight.
You can do anything if you put your mind to it.
Good luck.
2007-05-07 10:59:57
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answered by jesa ? 3
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Because if you are with the right person, it is easy. If you can't imagine yourself being committed to one person, stay single.
2007-05-07 11:02:13
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answered by Anonymous
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If you love someone you shouldnt cheat. you have to fight your temptations just like someone who sees a giant cake and they know they shouldnt eat it because it will just be bad for them in the end, so they ignore the urge and they stick to whats right in their life.
2007-05-07 11:00:43
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answered by Anonymous
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the best possible way [for me at least' is to know that u really wanna be wit tis person & jz have trust in one another..
keep all other relationships in check,do not go overboard in anythin u do wit other ppl & communicate..
2007-05-07 11:01:24
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answered by sam_wwn 3
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You have to be with the right person in order for that to happen
2007-05-07 10:59:06
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answered by Anonymous
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