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this guy wants me to hang out with him sometimed this week bt i dont know if i should because about a month or 2 ago he wanted to do the same thing but thenndecided to tell me he had a gf and then we stoped talking .. aperently now they r broke up but im not sure and idk what to do .... any suggestions?

2007-05-07 03:19:32 · 21 answers · asked by apryl 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

i forgot to say that im 18 and he is 22 and has a 1 year old

2007-05-07 03:41:53 · update #1

21 answers

I had that exact same problem! Hopefully yours won't turn out like mine. I ended up dating the guy, and that was a big mistake because I think he just wanted to get in my pants, but I wouldn't let him, so we broke up. Just talk to him some, and tell him how you feel. You can tell him you don't entirely trust him because of what he's done before. And if he doesn't change you can kick his butt!

2007-05-07 03:26:00 · answer #1 · answered by kellimae_cole 2 · 0 0

Well, hanging out with him wouldn't do any harm, would it? I reckon he deserves once more chance. Maybe he just really likes you and wants to get to know you. If you're interested in him in that way, be upfront and ask him what happened with his girlfriend. Then if he tells you they're finished, give him the benefit of the doubt. However, I'd suggest you take it slow, to avoid getting disappointed again. Don't get attached until you're sure you trust him.

2007-05-07 03:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Check him out and see if he really likes you are not. Hang out and see what he is all about. Ask him why he is not with his ex now. Tell him you are not interested in him if he is still with his gf. Find out who she is and contact her and ask her about him. Keep in mind of course that what she tells you may all be lies. However, you might gain some insight that will be helpful to you as you get to know this guy.

2007-05-07 03:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by Toosense2 3 · 0 0

you can hang out with a guy and just be his friend ya know. That is okay....if you just wanna hang out do it. Don't date a guy untill you really know what he's like anyway, you'd be suprised to see what a guy is like when they are just your friend and aren't pretending in front of you all the time. Than you'll know if he's worth dating or not.

2007-05-07 03:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by Lek 6 · 0 1

I think u should give him another chance
talk to him bt u need to be more careful with him this time
if he realy loves u he will change for u .

2007-05-07 03:29:16 · answer #5 · answered by freespidys 1 · 0 0

Hes prolly a player! And wants to use you to get back at her..Or it might be that he really does like you! Or it could be that hes into you, just read his body language!

2007-05-07 03:25:13 · answer #6 · answered by bicuriousboi2005 1 · 0 0

If you are interested in him and want to give it a try I see no reason why you shouldn't....You really have nothing to lose. Just don't get your hopes set too high in case nothing comes of it.

2007-05-07 03:24:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

WELL FOR ONE I THINK HE IS PLAYING SOME
MIND GAMES WITH YOU. AND AT THE SAME
TIME HE TO ME SOUNDS LIKE A CHILD THAT
DOES NOT KNOW HOW TO MAKE UP HIS MIND.
YOU ARE A PERSON WHO HAS FEELINGS AND
SHOULD NOT BE PLAYED WITH. YOU ARE NOT
ANYONES TOY. I THINK YOU SHOULD BLOW
THIS GUY OFF. WHAT JUST WHEN HE WANTS
TO SAY OK I THINK I LIKE YOU NOW . WHAT
ARE YOU SUPPOSE TO JUMP WHEN HE IS
READY? I DON'T THINK SO....... MOVE ON AND
FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL RESPECT YOU
AND YOUR FEELINGS......

2007-05-07 03:27:19 · answer #8 · answered by Rosemary M 3 · 0 0

hang out with him and see where it gets you if he doesnt wanna chill when hes got a gf he most likely likes you

2007-05-07 03:25:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

women/women are in a large number of cases bi-curious, and arent afraid to precise thoughts to at least one yet another. They hug, kiss, bypass to the lavatory at the same time, and stuff like that. yet at the same time as adult adult males do it, it truly is incorrect, and gay.

2016-10-18 06:14:39 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

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