if i was a guy i wouldnt want to date you. I wouldn't even let my guy friends date you....you are a terrible girl friend, your lucky that guy put up with you as long as he did. Poor Guy.
On a more positive note, if you stop floating around from guy to guy just to try to please your need for attention and learn how to be faithful and loving than you might actually get to have a good healthy happy relationship. Untill than your life is going to be a constant ship wreck. Sorry but thats the truth.
2007-05-07 03:09:42
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answered by Lek 6
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Whoa, reading this is like reading my own life story! I'm kinda in the exact same position.
What you should do is you should live with being single, because when you've been in a serious relationship, break up and get straight into a different one...9 times out of 10 it doesn't work because you won't start from scratch, you'll start from where you left off with your ex.
You sound like the kind of person that always has to have a boyfriend...i'm quite similar to this but have learnt that this isn't the way to be, you need to go out more with your girl friends and have laugh, and when you go out with your friends, forget all about boys, because when you go out looking for love, chances are you'll never find it...but if you go out without thinking about it, it unexpectedly comes along and its great when it does.
Try talking with your ex again, try to be friends with him but make sure the both of you are over each other first....because its so hard being friends with someone that you've been more than friends with, it takes a lot of time so you must respect your ex's wishes.
Good luck!
2007-05-07 03:12:03
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answered by Yellow 4
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It sounds like you're indecisive about your lifestyle and since you're not wanting to be single, you'll do what it takes not to, even if it means playing around on someone, which isn't the way to go. I know a lot of people who don't like to be single, but I'm curious as to why you play around on people. That's my first question, the second question is since you're doing this, and the more you do it unfortunately the better you'll get, that could lead you into more emotional trouble and less and less dates. If I were you, and I've done this, take yourself out of the dating game and be on your own for awhile. It sounds also like a maturity thing. Right now, you might be emotionally immature and it's time to figure out what you want and don't want. But I know telling this to someone who doesn't want to be single probably won't do this. My oldest sister is exactly the same way. Good luck!
2007-05-07 03:12:40
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answered by suzlaa1971 5
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You should take some time to yourself to find yourself. Apparently you are a user and this guy is a nice guy. He will take you back apparently because he has a hope that you will treat him right, but in your current condition, you wont. And you will end up hurting him again. As long as you feel that you can just see someone and want to be with them, you can never be true to him. If you love him and respect him, you will get yourself together first so you can give him what he deserves. Other than that, I suggest that you leave him alone. Dont worry, another guy will be in your future pretty soon.
2007-05-07 03:11:28
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answered by baestek 2
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Im not gonna be cruel even though this deserves it the way i see it you made your bed now lie in it.This is a lesson in life dont think the grass is greener on the other side.I cant blame the guy he gave you enough chances and you took it for granted once a cheater always a cheater.The best thing you can do is improve yourself if you are with someone stay with that one dont spread yourself around.Its not good for you nor your reputation.When this happens to you yhis will destroy you remember what goes around comes around.
2007-05-07 03:15:37
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answered by Anonymous
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Stop cheating on men! Thats the first thing! If you have cravings for sex, just stay single. You can get laid almost any time you wanted to!
Here's a phrase
Single = Lots of chicks (in your case men)
Not Single = one chick (your case man)
So, if you are in a RELATIONSHIP with a guy, STICK TO THAT GUY! If you are single, **** all the men you want to!
Just remember this also, a lot of men think that if you go on a couple dates, then you are boyfriend and girlfriend, Remind them that there is a difference between dating and relationships!
2007-05-07 03:15:28
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answered by Jeremy 3
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why don't you take a second to be to yourself. you sound like a hoe right now. no offense but if you were my friend I would tell you straight up. and you asked so i'm telling you straight up. you sound like a confused little girl, like a dazed flusey and you need to take sometime to reevaluate what you want in a guy and then see if you have those same qualitites if not work on cultivating them, because at least if you don't get the guy would have worked to make yourself a better person.
2007-05-07 03:11:54
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answered by Anonymous
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You may hate being single, but you will never have a good marriage or solid relationship as long as you havent found "the one" that will tame you into not wanting anyone else. Until you can be faithful to one man, you may as well just keep on what you're doing....
2007-05-07 03:10:06
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answered by Kelly773 3
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This sounds like an oxymoron, but it's true. You'll never be happy and content in a relationship until you're happy and content NOT being in a relationship. Take the time to get to know yourself. You'll likely be surprised by the person you meet.
2007-05-07 03:11:31
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answered by Penelope Smith 7
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sounds like you can't be alone, which isn't a good thing. You NEED to take time off for yourself because you're always relying on others to make you feel better. You need to focus on yourself and help yourself before you can be in a relationship. If you don't then all of your relationships will be doomed.
2007-05-07 03:09:53
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answered by Bood 4
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